Gay Sex Tips for Tops!

November 4, 2024
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Gay Sex Tips for Tops!

Got a big dick? Got a small dick? It doesn't matter if you don't know how to use it! We've all been there when we are hooking up with some guy who is really packing. You get him into the bedroom, he unzips and you think you are going to be in total ecstasy when all he does is stand there and thrust back and forth like a broken robot. Uggg... So we feel it is our duty to share some gay sex tips for all you tops out there. Here's what your bottoms really want you to know in the bedroom.

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Foreplay

The more time you spend ramping us up, the more we will be open to your every thrust. Shoving your tongue down our throat and then turning us around and putting our face on the pillow is not foreplay. We are the ones who had to prepare for the moment, eating salad and ice cubes all day, so give us some attention and add some hot foreplay to the mix. Turning us on and creating a sense of intimacy will open up our holes and truly get us in the mood. Kissing, touching, caressing...it all adds to the actual impact. It's not just about you putting it in. We need the appetizer!

LUBE

As far as gay sex tips go, this is probably the most important. While porn seems to think lube is just an afterthought or that spit is actually all you need, this just isn't true. The more lube you use, the easier and hotter it will be. No one likes a raw hole, and too much friction takes us out of the moment. Buy the big bottle and use it. There's no such thing as too much lube. Also, tops, if you are hosting always have lube available. We bottoms don't just have it in our pocket at all times. Also take the time to apply it well. Use it as a type of foreplay. Pour it on our hole, gently tease our hole open, and massage that lube in. Trust us, it will really get us hot and bothered.

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Rimming

We can't believe we have to say this, but there are a number of tops out there who don't get into rimming their bottom. Say what, now? We've couched, we've taken precautions, and we have to grin and bear it, the least you can do is stick your tongue in and give our hole the attention it deserves. As far as gay sex tips go, communicate with your bottom and find out how he likes to be rimmed. Again, this attention and foreplay will really open us up and get into the mood. Don't like rimming? Go straight, cause this is part of the job.

Communicate

Communicate with us in the bedroom. This can even be dirty talk, but use some level of verbiage while you're pounding us out. Find out if the position you have us in works for us. Find out if you're thrusting too hard. Find out if you are hitting our spot. Find out if we are having a good time. Checking in with us makes us feel important and not just like a cum rag. A level of communication also builds intimacy, even if it is a causal hookup. Better intimacy makes for better sex.