Hey Chad,
I am typically a top and have limited experiences bottoming, and the reason is because it hurts too much. Every time I go through the same thing, clean out, hype myself up, poppers, lube, and try taking it slow. But the outcome is always the same, it hurts and I can’t enjoy myself and then stop him after a few minutes because it is too unbearable. How do I bottom without it feeling like I’m passing a watermelon?
Thanks,
- Novice Bottom
Wow, thank you Novice Bottom for the graphic imagery. So to avoid passing a watermelon, try relaxing! Yup, that’s right, relaxing. It sounds like you’re too stressed girl, and you need to breathe and unclench that little bussy hole or else you’re gonna get a fissure! Make sure to take deep breaths as he’s pushing in, and make him go slow. Once he’s fully in, make him stay very still for at least 1 minute to allow your hole to adjust while he’s inside. Once you adjust, keep breathing deeply and allow him to go SLOWLY in and out in small strokes. Slow and steady wins the race. Make sure there’s plenty of lube and even take a hit of some poppers for some extra preparation. Even try some small to medium-sized toys before he comes over to loosen you up. Good luck in entering your hole era!
