Gooning…What It Is, How To Do It, How You Can Benefit: Gay Kinks Explained

January 17, 2024
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Gooning...What It Is, How To Do It, How You Can Benefit: Gay Kinks Explained

There’s been a new term making its way around the gay chats – especially on the hookup apps. “Gooning” is now a thing, and we’ve had so many questions about it, we thought we would just address it head-on, so to speak, and give you the details.

In a nutshell (pardon the pun), gooning is the result of long-term masturbation. But it’s not simply a long jerkoff session.

First of all, let’s talk about where the word comes from. Not the most complimentary of origins given what a pleasurable experience gooning can be. But gooning comes from the word “goon, " a stupid or deliberately foolish person. It’s a reference to the type of face someone makes when they orgasm…I guess if we were to snapshot our face while cumming, it might look a little funny.

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Now with that out of the way…gooning is not edging. Gooning is the state of being that is achieved from edging. It’s a state of being in a near catatonic state due to the feeling emanating from a man’s penis after prolonged masturbation, any caress at this point could lead to ejaculation. There is the gooning state where a man’s brain and his penis have become unified, the brain is only processing pleasure points from this epic jerkoff session. At this point, a man has no control over his body movements, thoughts, or facial expression…that’s where the “goon” reference comes in. We are there to serve our crotch at this point.

It is now being considered by many gays as a sincere form of meditation and some have said it helps with anxiety and stress, and can also lead to a euphoric after-effect that can lead to better sleep and peacefulness. On the other side, some have said gooning fills them with energy, almost like a workout gets you pumped for the day.

The only drawback? The usual time to achieve this state of pleasure can be hours. Who has time for all of that? Also, if you aren’t being careful and using enough lube, your dick can get a bit raw. Also, the art of gooning takes patience and the skill to know when to pull back so you don’t cum before you reach that state of gooning.

Gooning can be done with a partner. Gooning has been used as a tool for couples to feel intimate with each other on a closer level than just a quickie. It challenges the partners to communicate and feel the other’s energy, knowing when they are getting close and being able to pull back. It builds a bond that isn’t just based on the usual fucking.