F***ing With AJ Sloan: Prostate Appreciation & Easing Into Bottoming

December 2, 2022
AJ SLOAN

We all know a total top or two that don't want any fingers, tongues, or toys near their hole. Don’t you even dare ask them to bottom, they’ll go ape s*** on you. But let’s be honest, the ass-clit, I mean, the prostate does nothing but induce eye-rolling pleasure and is meant to be explored with regularity. If you are hung up with the fear of booty hole penetration or are hoping to top your top then this blog is right for you.

Let’s both take a deep breath and relax that hole. Enjoying butt stuff is pretty difficult when you are wound up with tension and will set you up for bottom failure (and a possible fissure). To enjoy pole-in-hole time, you must relax your voluntary butt muscles to prepare them for penetration. Breathe and unclench.

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Fingers are a great way to start begin with. Starting small to slowly and gradually get that hole ready for larger objects will help you reach your bottoming goal. And to those tops that need to hear this, trim your fingernails for f*** sake. There is a special place in hell for all the cavemen out there who try to finger some ass with goddam claws. You are scarring your bottom both physically and psychologically. And, of course, tongues are always welcomed alternatives.

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It is no sweat if you want to try bottoming but are not yet ready for a partner. You can always dabble on your own. Fingers are nice but I recommend going the toy route. For an absolute virgin, butt plugs are a great resource. Take your time teasing your hole with it, there’s no rush. Once it is in, you can go hands-free and just enjoy the touch of pleasurable pressure it places on your prostate gland. Size up over time. A few plugging sessions and you will likely develop a thirst for more. Don’t worry, champ. You'll be riding cock into the sunset soon enough!

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When you are ready for the real deal, chemistry and communication are key. Before you even get started, talk to your partner. It is always a good idea to discuss likes and dislikes beforehand. Don’t be shy about it. Your ass will thank you later.

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When you do engage in anal fun, choose a comfortable first position. I prefer to ride a cock to start things off. That always gets my hole happily loosened up to get railed in an array of other positions to follow. Not into bottoming on top? No problem. Every hole is unique ❄️. Find what position(s) works for you.

God gave us all a prostate for a reason, and it breaks my heart to imagine someone never knowing the joy that it brings. No matter our labels or preferences, there’s a little bottom in each and every one of us. Now get out there and get that dick. And always remember, lube is your friend.