
Where To Find Your Tops, Bottoms, Hung Guys, Bears, & DILFs: Grindr Unwrapped 2025
As we reported last week, Grindr has released its infamous Unwrapped report for 2025. Grindr Unwrapped uses platform data and user voting to compile a snapshot of all of us horny gays from the last year. How many messages were sent, how many albums unlocked, what the top searches were (hung), and more. Not only did it capture our hookup culture, but it also recorded what we were obsessed with, pop culture-wise. Last week, we reported on all the pop culture findings - from our top celebrity bulges to favorite album of the year - the gays weighed in. This week, we are going to report on the data that we thirsty gays can find a little more useful: where to find the horny guys we like.
Are you a pic collector? Some of you Grindr guys out there just seem more interested in getting dick and ass pics than actually hooking up. Well, the top cities that were XXX pic collectors were Medellin, Colombia; Milano, Italy; Athens, Greece; Bangalore, India; and Manaus, Brazil. Well, considering that Colombia, Italy, Greece, and Brazil are notorious for their hung men, we can see why people would want to collect those pics. India was a surprise, who knew?
If you are a DILF lover, you will want to pack your bags and head to (in order) the US, Australia, the UK, New Zealand, and Canada. Apparently, we are the top capital when it comes to mature men. C'mon DILFS, represent! Woof!
If gay bears are your type, you will want to go looking for fur in Ireland, the US, Greece, South Africa, & the UK. We'd love to go beer drinking with the bears in Ireland! With all the toned bodies hitting the gay beaches in Greece, we were surprised to see that it leads the way with bears. We weren't surprised that the US had a lot of bears; they are loud and proud! Roar!
Ok, if you aren't into the DILFS and the bears, perhaps twinks are more your speed. Well, pack your bags. You will need to head to Switzerland, the Netherlands, Belgium, Austria, and Germany. All those smooth Nordic twinks with those blonde looks and smooth skin! C'mon, Bel Ami twunks! We would gladly head to Switzerland, not only would we find hot twinks, but we'd also pick up some amazing chocolate. It's a win-win!
In the mood to be a power top and find your willing bottom? You'll want to head to South Africa, South Korea, Japan, Vietnam, and Finland. We are surprised that the US didn't make the list since we can never seem to find a top to save our lives. These nations are all bottom-up, ready for the taking!
We know that side positions have been on the rise. Who needs anal when you can just do foreplay and oral? Most sides can be found in Singapore, the Philippines, Japan, New Zealand, and Australia. That is a unique mix of nationalities!
Are you and your man open and looking for a third (or more) to join your bedroom action? Grindr reports that you can find the most open relationships in South Korea, Switzerland, Germany, the Netherlands, and Denmark. Hmmm...
Hung bottoms have become quite popular. Who doesn't love seeing a huge dick flopping back and forth as the bottom gets pounded? It's a fun bonus! To find your hung bottom, Grindr is telling us to head to France, the UK, Canada, the US, and Australia. We have been to all of these countries, and yes, we can attest, there are a lot of eager bottoms who are very hung and who are also very eager to get plowed.
Another niche fuck group is the femme tops. Never judge a book by its cover. This guy may be clacking his fan, wearing glitter, and quoting Drag Race, but he's going to turn you around in the bedroom and plow the fuck out of you. Femme tops can be found in the UK, the US, Ireland, Slovenia, and Australia. We love that Ireland has the most bears and among the most femme tops. LOL. Imagine those gay bars!
If you want to plan your vacation around cruising, head to London, NYC, Paris, Chicago, and Rio De Janeiro for the top cruising cities. Of course, Grindr can be your guide in these cities.
Ok, so now you know where to find your ideal hookup. Go forth and spread your seed! ...and tell us all about it!
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