Quick Gay Sex Tips To Ramp Up Your Game

Quick Gay Sex Tips To Ramp Up Your Game

Even the most advanced gay slut could use a little bedroom refresher every now and then to ramp up the sex game. Sometimes, we become too reliant on routine and fall back on old, tried-and-true techniques. But these techniques can get a little stale, and we don't even realize that we are just going through the motions. If you have been feeling a little lackluster in the sheets lately, maybe it's time to do a quick checklist and see what you can try to mix things up. You want your man leaving your bedroom feeling like he's just had the best sex of his life. We put together a quick list of some of the things that we know work to make gay sex just a bit better. Trust us, we've done the research.

Our first tip isn't really a tip; it is more of a mindset that can affect every aspect of your gay sex session. It is confidence. The reality is, no one is perfect, even that hot gym guy with a six-pack. Most of us might have a few extra pounds we'd like to shed, some of us think we aren't hung enough (even though the average is 5.16 inches, most of us are more than fine), and some of us are embarrassed by that patch of hair that we can't reach. Everyone has something they'd like to change. The thing is, you are being harder on yourself than your bedmate. What really matters is the confidence that you bring to sex. Be confident in your abilities and your sexual energy, and all of your inhibitions will go away, and that confidence will supersede anything about your body you might be worried about. We've had some of the best sex with guys who weren't typically our physical type. But the confidence and energy were stellar. So don't run under the sheets and turn off the lights. Let your sex flag fly high and work that bed! You got this.

Dirty talk. Just do it. Being verbal in the bedroom is so hot, and it activates one of your other senses. Moans and groans and dirty words add a level of spice to the proceedings. Just don't overdo it, be sincere while doing it, so it doesn't come off comedic. If you are feeling something great while having sex, make sure your partner knows with all your moans and groans. It will turn him on more, and he'll start being more verbal, and then it is a mashup of all your senses in a pool of sweat. Adding some hot audio with a sex playlist can also add to the atmosphere.

If you do the same routine in the bedroom every time, stop it. If you always have sex on the bed, try it out in a different room or locale. Car sex can be hot. Beach sex can be hot. Sex in a dressing room can be hot. Just don't get caught, LOL. But mix up your routine. If you always start with the standard blow job to anal routing, mix it up. Also, foreplay can be just as important as the actual fucking. Spending more time on foreplay, paying attention to your partner's needs, will increase the passion and make the build-up to cumming a huge affair. Try different foreplay techniques, try different positions, try some sex toys, sex candles, new rimming and blowjob positions, just mix it up. This will keep you on your toes and keep you in the moment. Also, don't forget to focus on all the body parts. Some guys go straight to sucking a dick or eating ass. Suck his nipples, lick his toes, kiss his neck, dry hump his back, nuzzle those armpits. Get all of the body parts standing at attention.

Hitting the gym isn't just about keeping up your physical looks. Working out can help solidify your core, which will allow you to try different positions in the bedroom that might need a little extra strength. It will also help with your stamina, so you don't tire out and get limp before the big moment. Being physically healthier can also help with your testosterone levels, which does wonders for gay sex. Guys who work out regularly (regardless of whether they have extra pounds) tend to have more confidence, which brings us back to our first tip.

Edge your session! You don't need to race to the final moment where you both cum. Start with some hot kissing, get hot and heavy, get to the heavy foreplay session, and instead of jumping right into the fucking, go back to heavy kissing. And after a good chunk of time of getting pounded, go back to heavy foreplay. Vary the pace and sex activities, and try to hold off until the big moment. The build-up will be worth it.

Spend some time grooming yourself before a hot sex session. We've been with more than enough tops who think just because they aren't getting fucked that they don't have to shower or get themselves ready for an intimate time. Um, no. Make sure you are showered, clean and clip your nails, put some lotion on your feet, pluck those ear hairs, brush your teeth (do we need to say this twice?), trim that pube bush, and show your man that you put a little effort into getting together.

Porn it up! We know that gay porn shows us the ultimate sex fantasy. There's no harm in incorporating some of the role play, sexual positions, dirty talk, and scenarios into your own bedroom. Try recreating some of your favorite scenes; it really is fun. That being said, don't get too hung up on porn. You don't need porn playing in the background just to get it up. Also, if you are watching a lot of porn in your free time and cumming in less than five minutes, that can ruin some of your game in actual sex by cumming too fast, because that's what you've conditioned your dick to do.

What are some of your hot gay sex tips?

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