Preparing For Your First Gang Bang

Preparing For Your First Gang Bang

Well, hey there, you sexy power bottoms! So you finally got the courage to host your first gang bang. Congrats! So now what? We've learned a thing or two from our years of gay sex research on being a good gang bang host. We put some of our tips and best practices together to keep in mind when you put the word out that you are hosting and ready to take loads!

Don't Overdo It

We have all watched that hot porn where a power bottom gets gang banged by 10 guys. It is very hot, but keep in mind, it is also well-prepped and coordinated, and most of these guys are well-versed in taking multiple dicks. While the fantasy is very hot, the reality is that you want to start off slow. You may fantasize about taking on 10 guys, but your hole and energy may be only good for three or four guys to start. After the first couple of dicks, your hole might start to be at its limit. Nothing ruins a hot gang bang like having to stop and tell the remaining six guys to back off. Start off modestly; you can always arrange for more later. Also, communication is key. If you aren't feeling it and realize gang bangs aren't your thing, stop right there. Your needs are the most important when being the center of a gang bang. Having a safe word when you need a breather or need to stop is a wise choice.

Stranger Danger

Make sure you have a designated space for your gang bang. Whether it is your living room or bedroom, make sure the space is well defined and let your guests know that other parts of the house are off limits. If you are busy being pounded, you don't really know what the other guys are up to, and you don't want them wandering around. Also, lock up and hide your valuables. It's not a fun thing to be concerned about, but it has happened. Our best advice would be to get a hotel room for your first time hosting a gang bang, so you don't have to worry about that aspect. Also, some guys just have a weird energy. If someone stops by to fill your hole and you get a gut feeling they are off, pull the plug on it right there. Gut feelings are often the best indications.

Being A Good Host

Whether you are hosting at your house or a hotel, make sure you have provisions ready for your guests. Spend some money on good lube and have a few bottles easily accessible. Your hole will appreciate the luxury lube, and trust us, you will need a lot! Your hole will dry up after multiple dicks, even if you are taking loads. Good lube can make or break a hot gang bang session. Also, have bottles of water on hand. Things heat up pretty quickly in a group setting. We also recommend getting a package of cheap hand towels for guests to wipe up sweat, lube, and cum off their bodies before they get it all over the place. It's just being a gracious host. We don't recommend having alcohol on hand. Some guys can't handle their sex and booze and might get out of hand. Also, set the scene. Low lighting, sexy music, and porn on the TV can really set the atmosphere and add to the sensuality of the scene.

Prep Your Body

Most guys don't realize the absolute workout being at the center of a gang bang is. Your body will be put into different positions, your abs will start to ache after contracting while being pounded, and you will be using muscles you didn't know you had. Paying attention to your mental and physical state before a hot session really makes the experience great. We recommend doing some breathing exercises to center your mind and energy. And this part we can't recommend enough. Do stretches! Stretch that body out; you don't want to get cramps midway while being pounded. We also recommend watching some hot gang bang porn to get yourself in the mood and get you excited about what's too cum, um, come. We don't have to remind you to get that peach clean. Taking multiple dicks means you are going to get dicked down deeper than you probably ever have. Make sure your hole is prepped and ready to go! We also know that taking care of your sexual health is key. Make sure you are up to date on your PrEP and Doxy. And you have every right to ask about the sexual health of your guests.

The Outfit

Wear something that makes you feel sexy. Whether it is a naughty jockstrap, leather harness, or anything else that makes you feel erotic, start the session out by wearing it. Play the part and look the part. We love a power bottom in a sexy outfit.

Have Fun!

When you prepare well and take care of the basics, you can really let loose and enjoy being the center of attention at a gang bang. Let your freak flag fly and be that naughty little power bottom you've always wanted to be. We are told so often to downplay our sexuality, but nope, you are in control and celebrate every load you take. There's no shame in group sex. We also suggest some aftercare for yourself. After your session, you will be exhausted. Take a nice warm bath, give yourself the spa experience, and do some breathing and centering exercises to wind yourself down.

What are your tips for hosting a gang bang?

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