How To Tell Him He’s Bad In Bed: Gay Sex Tips by Chad

How To Tell Him He's Bad In Bed: Gay Sex Tips by Chad

There's nothing like that disappointing moment when you are all hot and bothered, and get that hottie into bed, unzip and start fucking and then you realize, he is really bad in bed. Like really bad. Sigh. It's even worse when you think you are in love with your boo, and he just isn't what you need to in the bedroom. While sex isn't everything in a relationship, it is a big part, no matter what other gays say. No one should have to deal with bad sex, grinning and bearing it. So how do you tell your man he is bad in bed? Never fear, I am here! I've had more than my fair share of bad gay sex, and I'm not shy about holding back anymore. If your man is bad in bed, it's time to take control and change the situation.

I have heard the saying, There's no such thing as bad gay sex. If you cum, that's better than not. Well, that's not entirely the truth. There is nothing like having to deal with a session of bad thrusting and sweating. Time goes by so slowly when you are stuck in a session with someone who doesn't know how to fuck. It all comes down to communication. You are more than eager to open your mouth to give a BJ, so open your mouth and communicate your feelings. It doesn't have to hurt your man's feelings.

You don't just tell a guy he is bad in bed. Communicate what it is exactly that you need in a hot session, and tell them you'd like to work on making it just a bit hotter. Make a sexy game of it. Literally give your man instructions on how you like it. Open up the convo and ask him what he likes. Bad sex could literally just be from bad communication. If you are holding back what you want and like, maybe he is too, and that just makes for an awkward fuck session.

Play some sex games, and try some new techniques together. Make it fun for each other, while learning some ways to make your sessions hotter. If he doesn't know how to move his hips, grab him and move in motion with him. If he doesn't know how to give a good blow job, show him your skills or tell him exactly how you want it. Direct the motion.

Being gentle in your approach is key. But if you are putting up with bad sex, you will start resenting your partner, and if sex is off the table, that is a huge part of intimacy in a relationship that is missing. Bad sex is often chalked up to someone not having the skills to fuck well. It could be something else entirely. You could just not be compatible in other ways, and that energy is affecting the way you fuck. There could also be emotional issues, watching too much porn issues, so that when it comes to bedroom play, they are distracted or withdrawn. Communicate what is really going on, have some patience while being assertive as to what you want from your bedroom partner.

And unfortunately, sometimes two guys just aren't compatible. Whether it is two tops or two bottoms with no one being versatile, or kinks and desires just don't match, sometimes you just have to call it a day and stop trying to make fetch happen. There are plenty of other things you can do in the bedroom besides anal, and sometimes that can be just as fulfilling. But if you've tried communicating and things don't improve, you may have to look elsewhere.

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