Work That Dildo! Tips and Practices From Chad

Work That Dildo! Tips and Practices From Chad

When I hit brunch with the guys on Sundays, I never know what the hell is going to come out of their mouths in terms of the naughty conversation for the day. This last week, our twunk friend announced that they bought their first dildo for masturbation, but were too embarrassed to try it out. What? Too embarrassed to try it out...by himself? Who is he keeping the embarrassment from? He said that it sounded like a good idea at the time, but looking at the dildo just sitting there made him feel silly. WTF? So here I am to promote good dildo use and to tell the gays to get over any embarrassment. I don't even understand where that comes from. Anyway, I use a dildo for my extended masturbation sessions, and let me tell you, it really adds to the experience and creates big orgasms and big loads.

When choosing a dildo, don't go for gold right away. Even if you are used to taking big dicks in your ass, playing with a rigid toy is different, and your body may not be receptive to big tools right away. Start off modestly with your dildo to really explore how to use it, and to figure out what pleasure points you like to hit. If you start off too big and it doesn't go quite right, you will be tempted to just give up. Start off slow and easy; it's not a race.

You will discover many new positions for your body. This is natural. Shoving a dildo in your own ass will take some skill and flexibility. Don't be afraid to really move and contort your body for great entry and for great rhythm in using it. You may discover angles you never thought to explore that you can bring over to the bedroom! Don't be afraid to get in silly positions. Again, you aren't trying to impress anyone but your ass.

Don't just pull down your pants and shove it in. Create an experience. Sexy lighting, some hot porn on the TV, music, good lube, and wearing hot and slutty underwear can all add to the ambiance and make it a really sexy time for yourself. Make it erotic, make it sensual, make it naughty. In setting the mood, also take a few moments to do some breathing and meditation work. It might sound silly, but it will clear your mind of distracting thoughts and put you in tune with your body. It really does add to the dildo experience.

Play with the force and rhythm of insertion. You are in the driver's seat, and changing up the pace and direction will get your hole to open up, and you will find new pleasure points that other guys may not have hit before. Really take your time to try different routines and see what your body responds to the best. And trust me, you will hit your G spot, and that is the magic moment. Keep at it until you're ready to blow your load! When you are finished, make sure you ease the dildo out, don't just yank it.

Make sure you clean your dildo when you are done. Bacteria can collect on it when not cleaned properly, and no one needs that. Also, when you are done, do some stretches and check in with your hole and make sure everything is good. If you were being a little rough on your hole or going in and out fast, you may have inadvertently made a little tear. You want to be aware of that.

Let me know how your dildo exploration goes and share any tips you might have! Go get 'em!