The Art of Fingering

The Art of Fingering

Fingering in the bedroom is not very often talked about when talking about gay sex. We've had many requests on tips for blowjobs and rimming, but not so much on fingering...until lately. It seems more of you are exploring fingering in the bedroom and are curious about learning more. We aim to please, and we have had much experience with fingering. Fingering can be a great addition to your foreplay, it can be a great way to open up a tight bottom, or even take the place of a full anal sex session. There is a bit of finesse when fingering, though, to make it enjoyable for both parties.

Fingering is just what it sounds like. The top uses a finger or fingers to stimulate the reciever's anus. This is often used in conjunction with rimming to make the bottom feel good and relax their hole. If fingering is done just right, it can even make the bottom orgasm if the top finds and massages that G-spot. If done wrong, it can hurt the bottom and cause a tightening of the anus and ruin the moment.

Because of the intrusive nature of fingering, it should be discussed prior to engaging in a session of ass play. Sticking your fingers in someone's butt without asking or leading up to it can cause distrust and be painful. When you get consent, finger away! The first thing you need to do when going to finger someone is wash your hands! Clean hands can help avoid infecting the anal glands. Some medical experts suggest using gloves or a finger condom (yes, they exist) to cut down the risk of bacterial infection or even spreading STDs (you can get an STD from fingering). You are also going to want to trim or file your nails so there is no risk of tearing any body tissue or causing pain from a hangnail.

In the world of fingering, we have one important word to keep in mind. LUBE. Even if your bottom is a bit moist, you are still going to want to use lube. Doing it dry is just not going to feel good at all. Lube will help the anus ease up and will feel a lot better when betting fingers in the hole. Do not skip this step, or you'll have an unhappy bottom.

Always start with one finger, even if you're bottom is a major power bottom. Having a finger in your ass is a very different sensation, and easing into it slowly is key. Forcing more than one finger to begin with can cause tearing and discomfort. And don't shove your finger in the hole. Go in slowly, and don't just poke, but swirl your finger around so it massages the walls of the hole. Steady your other hand on your bottom's body so you can feel them if they are too tense or when they start to relax. You can also use the other hand to massage their balls or rub their back to really add to the comfort and sensation.

Be careful of where you put your fingers after a fingering your guy's ass. You can spread bacteria, and for heaven's sakes, don't rub your eye with that hand. But putting those fingers in someone's mouth or dickhole from the ass isn't the best idea.

Fingering your guys ass can stimulate the prostate, the G-spot. The prostate is a gland in the male body that makes some of the fluid present in semen. If you feel along the prostate, you can find the perfect spot and make your bottom orgasm. Change up the rhythm and motion of your fingers to stimulate different areas and really make your bottom feel good.

As with any penetration act in the bedroom, communicating with your partner and sensing their comfort and pleasure is key in making this successful. The act can really add to your routine and get your bottom all riled up and ready to take your cock. Try it out!

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