So You Wanna Use a Fleshlight For the First Time?

So You Wanna Use a Fleshlight For the First Time?

One of our good friends from our gay friendship circle recently bought his first Fleshlight. His first? We are on our third or fourth. Anyhow, we haven't heard from him in a few days and now he states that he is giving up men and just dating his new jerkoff tool. Although when he first sat down with it, we were all on the group texts with him asking us the best way to use it. Um, we didn't know it needed to come with an instruction manual; it is pretty evident what you do with it. But then we realized that we had learned a few tips on the best way to use it. So we thought we would share.

You either walked into an adult bookstore and picked out your first Fleshlight, or you ordered one online, hunched in the corner, waiting for the mailman to drop it off in your box. Before you stick your junk in, take out the cardboard strip, otherwise you'll cut your dick. Wait, you still aren't ready yet. We can't believe we have to say this, but yes, you need to wash it before you use it. Many of our gay friends have said they didn't wash it first. Um, no, that's gross. Take the fleshy part out of the plastic holder and run some warm water through it for 30 seconds.

We've done the test, and a warm Fleshlight feels a lot better than a cold one. After washing, leave it in a bowl of warm (not boiling) water for about ten minutes. This makes it nice and sensual. Next, lube it up! Do not try using your unit dry, your dick will not be happy. Also, only use water-based lube; oil-based will damage it. And also, don't be cheap on the lube. You are taking ourself out on a handjob date, splurge a little. Better lube is a better experience.

You can adjust the cap at the bottom of the Fleshlight to change the level of suction. Usually, less suction is good for long edging sessions, but if you just have a few minutes and want some intense action, try super suction. It is intense. Again, if you use a lot of suction, use a lot of lube.

You can use your sex toy manually or hands-free. They both have different experiences. If you use your hands to move it up and down, it is just like jerking off with added intensity. Play with edging and play with varying stroking paces. Go from quick, quick, to slow, slow, and back to quick, quick again. If you want a different type of experience, wedge the Fleshlight between your mattress and box spring, or prop it up another way, and go at it hands-free. It's like fucking a butt. You will need to put some effort into making sure it won't budge while in use.

After you've blown your load, take a moment and gather yourself. Or lube up and go again. But when you are done, you HAVE to clean it. Not cleaning it properly will lead to bacteria. Use warm water, don't use soap, and make sure it is cleaned thoroughly. While full of water, shake it up and down to make sure to get all the folds. If you really want to clean it well, use some alcohol; Fleshlight even offers a refresh spray. The better you take care of it, the longer it will last. Make sure you drip dry it before putting it back into the sleeve.

Enjoy your new sex toy! Now you don't have to call your ex.