Quick Gay Sex Facts You Should Know: The Dick & Butt

Quick Gay Sex Facts You Should Know

With so many ideals being presented in gay porn and in Hollywood, there are certain facts about gay sex that never make it to the screen. Perfection in bodies, body parts, and sex acts is what we see, but there is a reality of what happens in the bedroom that should be considered. Can sex be awkward and messy? For sure. Is it still fun and hot? Yes. But before you start to get all self-conscious in your next sex session, here are some quick gay sex facts you should keep in mind regarding the dick and butt.

The Dick

Taken from multiple studies from around the world, the average size of a dick is 5 inches. That's it! According the porn world, everyone is walking around with 7.5 or bigger just ready to plow. That just isn't true. So next time you want to be shy about the size of your cock, just know you are probably just right in line with most other guys. Furthermore, anything over 6 is considered large, and anything 8 and over is considered rare and extremely hung. Yes, we have been with guys that hung, but that isn't the norm. As far as girth, 1.5 inches in diameter is considered average.

The truth about gay sex and big dicks is simple, girth is usually more important that length. Yes, when a long cock hits that second wall, it can feel very good. That is if you have an experienced bottom. For some, that is too deep and is actually uncomfortable. Hitting that famed second wall in the anus leads to the sigmoid colon and the peritoneal lining; hitting these areas actually causes pain. Lube and lots of foreplay can help if someone is actually hung enough to hit you in that area.

The scientific fact is, there are more nerve endings in the inches around the anal canal, so if you have the right amount of girth, that will give overall better sensations to your bottom that having an 8 inch skinny dick. Of course, you are responsible for the success of your dick. The quality of motion and thrusts adds a lot to the experience and though size might matter a bit, the way you move with sensuality and purpose can make up for below average dicks. Confidence also plays a major role, so if you are not so happy with the size of your man meat, don't let that show, and instead take control and plow your bottom to happiness.

The Butt

Your ass is very elastic. That is a gay sex fact. Typically, the anus can normally open to a tight 1 inch opening in diameter. With massaging, lube, and relaxation, this can expand all the way out to accommodate a dick that is 6.25 inches in girth. That is a really thick cock! Be patient, it does take time to get your anus muscles to relax and expand, so don't force anything. Also, this gay sex fact isn't always 100% accurate. There are some bottoms who have anuses that just won't open up past a certain point without pain or tearing. Ouch! Listen to your body and know when you are at your capacity. With some hard work, you can really expand your ass. We've all seen those DP videos.

Some of you are douching way too much to prepare for date night. Your anus cavity is about 8 inches max, anything past that is getting into your colon. You do not need to, and should not be, going into your colon. To be clean, you just need to clean out that anal cavity. Going further is going to cause more of a mess in the near future. Also, don't use too much water. Two to three rinses with a bulb are plenty. Do some test fingering to make sure. But don't overdo it.

Don't get hung up on the small stuff. We all have different body types, we all have different ways our body reacts to stuff, and we all have our own hang-ups. Stuff happens, and you just have to roll with the punches. Stop thinking everything is perfect like the porn world and understand that bedroom stuff isn't all roses and peaches.

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