Tops, When You Cum Too Fast, Do This!

Tops, When You Cum Too Fast, Do This!

Hello, Power Tops! We've all been there. You have a perky bubble butt bottom right where you want him, he's lubed up, you spread his cheeks, he slowly enter in, and the feeling is divine! He is tight and ready to go! You start thrusting, feeling his hips move against your rod, you are three thrusts in, and it feels so good, and then...suddenly...your dick tells you its about to blow. You are only three thrusts in! Without meaning to, or much control, you blow your wad in him, stop awkwardly, and then there's that moment of silence. Well, we are here to save the day. Don't make it a bad moment. Here are some quick tips of what to do when you cum too fast without ruining the moment.

First of all, it does happen to all of us tops at a certain point. There's also been moments where a bottom automatically cums when we barely get in. So, it doesn't just happen to you. Sometimes we can control our body, sometimes we can't. If this is a normal problem for you, you might want to jerk off an hour or so before the big moment. You can also try creams or dick sprays that will make your session last longer. Some thoughts are that watching too much porn on a regular basis can also make you cum too fast because you've conditioned your body to only last as long as a Pornhub scene. Obviously, here at Fleshbot Gay, we don't recommend giving up porn. What you can try doing is edge yourself while watching porn, and see how long you can last. That does help build stamina.

If you cum too fast, don't just stop and make it an embarrassing moment. If you know you are going to blow, treat it like a normal orgasm and give it all you got - moan, gyrate, let it fly free. Own the moment. Don't let the moment get silent. Quickly compliment your bottom and tell them their ass just felt so good that you couldn't help yourself. That will make them feel sexy and make it a bit playful. But wait, you aren't done.

In order not to make the premature ejaculation scene what your bottom remembers, quickly pull out and start focusing on your bottom. Rim him more, give him a blowjob, shower him with kisses or an erotic rubdown. Just because you are done doesn't mean he got off. Also, adding a post-sex foreplay focus on him will leave him feeling amazing, especially if you get him to cum, and that is what he will remember. But wait, there's more!

Use that time focusing on your bottom to rev up your engines again and see if you are good for a round 2. Going in again will undoubtedly take more time because your cum reserves are spent. Some of us naturally can go for multiple rounds, and some of us lose the itch right after we cum. Just stay in it and see what you can do. You can even take a little more time, kiss and cuddle, catch up on an episode of Housewives, and let the horniess return slowly but surely.

Check in with your bottom. Some power bottoms actually prefer a cum and go session, where a limited time is all they are looking for. This is especially true in cruising sex, sex clubs, or random Sniffies hookups. Some bottoms love a session as long as they get a load of cum.

How you end the session might be as important as how you start. Leave them fulfilled, leave them wanting more, just don't get into your head about it.