Feeders and Gainers: Gay Kinks Explained

Feeders and Gainers: Gay Kinks Explained

We love an open buffet in Vegas, we will seconds at Thanksgiving Dinner, and more than a few times, we've gorged ourselves on Panda Express after a hard night out, but feeders and gainers take things to the next level. Qualified as a kink, this certain proclivity is all to do with food. In this Gay Kinks Explained, we take a deep dive into the world of feeders and gainers. Buckle in (if the seat belt still fits!)!

There's an attraction to beefy guys, and then there's an ATTRACTION to beefier guys. Feederism is defined as a person who enjoys feeding another person to see them gain as much weight as possible. As far as gay kinks go, this isn't just instant gratification. The feeder and gainer relationship is long-term, as it takes the gainer some time to pack on a ton of weight. Many times, this kink happens in a relationship-style scenario.

Feeders tend to like a specific type of guy, the bigger the better. It goes beyond just being a chubby chaser. A feeder has control and a hand in getting their object of attraction over a certain weight. The fruits of their gay kink labor is manifested physically. The gainer is so devoted to the feeder that they will force themselves to eat what the feeder has dictated, and they are willing to transform their entire body to please their feeder. We know that some gay kinks can be a bit dangerous, but this is extremely unhealthy. This is long-term harm to the body. Obesity is no joke, and beyond our support of body image, it can medically affect a person with serious effects. We don't need to detail the negative consequences of being morbidly obese.

Most typically in the world of feeders and gainers is an emphasis on a round stomach. The bloated look, with all of the focus on the belly area, is what is considered most attractive in this gay kink. It isn't necessarily about gaining fat all over the body, just the stomach area. Usually, feeders and gainers will get into this type of kink play with a gainer who is fit or thin to begin with. But, as with any gay kink, there is nothing set in stone.

A gainer feels joy in giving their bodies and mindset over to a feeder. They feel love and affection from their feeder, and this is seen in the transformation of the body. There is a power play here, give and take, literally. There is an intimacy built because of this long-term arrangement. The issue lies in, when a gainer achieves a certain weight goal, what happens with that relationship? Does the feeder move on to someone else? And those who are overweight tend to have less sex drive, so what is the benefit of these kinds of gay kinks? Those involved in such a relationship state that it is about the mental and romantic connection, not about the sex.

As with any of the gay kinks, this should only be explored consensually, and communication between the feeder and gainer should remain constant. Have you been in such a relationship? Tell us all about it!

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