Ask Chad Gay Sex & Dating: Foreskin, Serial Dater, & Hung BFs

Ask Chad Gay Sex & Dating: Foreskin, Serial Dater, & Hung BFs

Hello, Sexies! The days are heating up and so is my libido! Is anyone just itching for some hot play all the time like me? I’m on fire! I hope everyone’s March has been going strong with plenty of hot boys and hot times. I’m starting to see short shorts and tank tops getting back into the clothing routine, so I’m a happy camper.

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Dear Chad,

 My boyfriend is uncut. I had never been with uncut before and the first couple of times we had sex, it was a bit…different. We’ve been dating for a year now. He loves getting blowjobs. I love giving them. What I don’t like is the foreskin…I don’t know why and I haven’t told him, but I’m dreading the moment he puts my head on his dick.  Am I just being ridiculous? Am I a terrible boyfriend?

Uncutphobia

Dear Uncutphobia,

Gurlll…get over it, foreskin is delicious! Ha! I’ll admit, it took a few times to be with an uncut guy before I got used to it, and now after many uncut guys I absolutely love it. Uncut guys have more nerves on their dickhead so they get tons of pleasure from head. That makes me feel good knowing I am giving them such a good time. You just aren’t used to it. What I would do is take some time and communicate with him just how he likes it, and take it slow. Ask him what feels good and what techniques you can learn when dealing with foreskin. Also, watch some Bel Ami porn and see how great uncut dicks are. LOL. You just have to get used to and focus on the pleasure he is getting. You just need to be exposed to more foreskin and take your time to get used to it and enjoy it. More and more guys are not being circumcised so you better get used to it! Also, make sure your boyfriend is making proper hygiene efforts to keep everything clean and tidy. You don’t need to tell him you aren’t into uncut guys, but you can tell him that you are still getting used to it. We all have certain aesthetics that we instantly react to, most often it is just because it is new to us.

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Hey Chad,

I just started dating this guy and I noticed that he is dating other guys at the same time. I’ve never done that. I’ve hooked up with plenty of guys who are hooking up with other guys, but I’ve never been in a dating relationship with someone who is doing the same thing with others. He said it is normal. I am not jealous per se but I feel like I’m in a competition with other guys he is dating to be the winner. I do like him and want to explore a real relationship with him. What to do?

Serial Dater

Dear Serial Dater,

Well, you have to give it a gay who doesn’t just jump into a relationship with a guy just because you started dating. It is healthy to explore options and not just jump into something because it is there. Although I admit, it does feel weird to know your guy is having romantic dinners with other guys. So you have to put your best foot forward and see it through. You may not be the best fit for him, but he is making sure. You should be dating other guys too. If you can’t deal with the jealousy issues or the fact that he is seeing other guys, then you need to excuse yourself from the competition and find a guy who is a monogamous dater. You need to just settle for him just because you are dating. Take a cue from him and see who is out there. It is a normal part of gay dating.

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Dear Chad,

My boyfriend is huge, like porn star huge. He has the biggest dick I have ever been with. At first, it was such a hot fantasy to be dating someone who is so hung. I love the way he bulges in every pants he wears, I love knowing that this big piece of meat is all mine, I just love the idea of hung guys. But the actuality is, he never gets fully hard, there’s always a bit of softness. Giving a blowjob and being a power bottom has been less exciting when he is not fully erect. Is there something wrong? Should I be worried?

Hung Harry

Dear Hung Harry,

Oh, what a cross to bear to be dating someone so big! It is funny because gay porn and gay society tells us that super hung is best. In fact, having someone very hung can sometimes be a challenge and take you right out of that fantasy. I’m not a doctor, but I’ve done plenty of internet searches. The assumption is that big dicks are too long for the blood to reach everywhere, making it someone flaccid. This just isn’t true, according to the medical world. He could be suffering from slight ED, which many men do where a full erection just doesn’t happen, although the penis can still function properly in the bedroom. This could be due to many issues, medical and mental. Stress and anxiety can cause slight ED. You should have a chat with him and see if he’s seen a doctor or is even aware that you are aware of the issue. But size does not matter, at least when it comes to ED.

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