The Power of Femme Guys

The Power of Femme Guys

A large contingent of us gay boys shudder when we think of being bullied while growing up. Being called "sissy" and "f*g" would illicit fear and loathing for our sexuality. Many of us stayed in the closet for a long time because of such teasing. Growing up, we were taught norms of how guys should sound, move, and behave. Having a high voice or limp wrists would set you up for teasing. Society has also taught us that a man who is feminine is less than or that something is wrong with him. Even in our own gay culture, there are plenty of power bottom and femme boy jokes. Why would being a good bottom be the, pardon the pun, butt of anyone's jokes? Do you know what it takes to be a good bottom? It is a lot of work and we should be getting all the praise. In this edition, I wanted to applaud the power of femme guys.

Superficially, femme guys tend to be amazing in bed. They have that energy that meshes the feminine with the masculine and they know how to make your world rock in bed. Most guys in this category know how to move their body, they are comfortable in their own skin, and own that femme energy making the spark even hotter. They tend to be more adventurous when it comes to trying new moves and kinks. The bottom femme guys love to be filled and pounded, and will ride you till your dicks falls off. LOL.

A guy who isn't afraid to show off their femme side by voguing down the street or showing midriff at a funeral is a turn on. Confidence is hot, a guy with feminine attributes who isn't afraid to flaunt it takes a lot of guts. They don't care what the world has to say, they are enjoying themselves to their fullest. A confident femme guy probably has more courage and a higher self-esteem from that muscled out gym guy.

In a relationship or the bedroom, femme guys tend to be doting, totally loveable gays who will shower you with affection and feelings. They are in tune with themselves and it makes them more available emotionally in a relationship. After a good session of fucking, they will stick around and cuddle and shower you with kisses. We love that.

Does wit have anything to do with being femme? The feminine guys in our circle tend to be quick-witted, sassy, and are able to come up with clapbacks faster than anyone. With two snaps of a finger, they will read your enemy to filth. Afraid to tell off your ex, get a femme friend involved, they will defend you until the cows come home and will stick up for you and slash their tires. They are loyal and loving, in friendships and in family.

The thing is, culture's view of masculine vs feminine is changing. We are seeing straight actors incorporating feminine fashion in their red carpet looks. Men are talking about their feelings more. Pink is not just a color for a girl anymore. Femme guys have been fighting social norms all their lives, and they are stronger and more resilient for it.

So let your femme guy flag wave proudly!

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