BJ Gag Reflex Issues or Small Mouth Syndrome? We Got You…How To

BJ Gag Reflex Issues or Small Mouth Syndrome? We Got You...How To

Most of us have fantasies of servicing super hung guys. Gay porn and society tells us that more is better. Regardless of how bad you want a guy packing, some of us just can't take it when it comes to giving oral. Sensitive gag reflexes are not uncommon and some of us, yes, it's hard to believe, have small mouths and are not able to accommodate a horse-hung stud. It is a travesty. Not to fear! As usual, we are bringing some quick tips and tricks to give you to bring to the bedroom (or nearest bathroom stall) to keep your BJ game going strong, even if you want to gag all over the place.

The scientific truth is, our gag reflex is a natural biological response to anything foreign going down our throats. It is our natural defense, and some guys just have more sensitive reflexes than others. Maybe their throats are conservative and fighting against the idea of gay oral. Sigh.

Practice Makes Perfect!

If you have a really sensitive gag reflex, you can help "train" your throat. You can start with a toothbrush or your fingers and just slowly place it at the tip of your tongue while breathing slowly, in and out. Let your body adjust, let your body give into gags, just keep breathing until your body adjusts. Once you feel calm and your body stops gagging, try moving down a bit further and further. Go from one to two to three fingers over time. This gag training is not going to happen in one session, it might not even happen until over a period of time. Be patient, keep up the practice, and eventually you can train your body to respond to good dick over choking hazard.

In and Out

A good breathing technique is going to be your best friend. When you slow the body down and breathe deeply through your nose, your body will avoid gagging because it knows you aren't choking. You can keep your mouth wrapped around a big dick, but just pause, and focus on your breathing till your mouth and throat can adjust. This will also help with anxiety.

Put the Head in BJ

Giving a bj is also called giving head for a reason. The bulk of a gay's nerve endings are in his head, rather than the shaft. So, instead of trying to deep throat the whole thing, focus on pleasuring his head. Run your tongue around the head ridge, suck on the tip, that will give him pleasure with no deep throating required.

Get Handsy

Just because your mouth can't accommodate a big dick doesn't mean you still can't provide a service. Grab the shaft of his dick with your hand and start sucking, putting your lips right next to your hand. Move your hand and lips up and down right next to each other, it will feel like your are deep throating him while you have control on how much of his dick you are taking in.

Other Body Parts

Focus on his other body parts while giving him a BJ. Tweak his nipples, play with his ass, massage his balls, whatever other stimulation you can give him. This will increase the sensation all over his body and it will be a full experience, regardless of how deep you can go.

If none of these tips work for you, remember, oral sex isn't for everyone and just because gay porn tells us that giving a BJ is just part of the hookup, it doesn't mean it is for everyone. If giving a BJ just isn't your thing, then don't make yourself do it and don't let anyone else make you against your will. Just communicate with your partners in regards to your relationship to oral. If it doesn't feel good or give you pleasure, then it is probably not something you should be doing.

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