Don’t Cum Yet! Lasting Longer…How to the Queer Way

Don't Cum Yet! Lasting Longer...How to the Queer Way

You finally get that hot, round-assed bottom home, you throw him on the bed, his face deep in the pillow, you unzip your pants, you lube it up, and you ease your way in, and two seconds later...you blow your wad. Wah wahhh...you nervously apologize, your bottom pretends not to be perturbed as he is thinking about the big dinner he passed up to be able to bottom. You didn't want to cum in a matter of seconds, but there you are, dick in hand, already going limp. Sorry, Charlie. Don't want to cum just yet? Here are some quick-fire tricks of the trade...or rather, tricks of our trade.

Un-focus

Yeah, we know this sounds like the opposite of what you should be doing in the bedroom, but if you want to prolong your session, start putting your mind in a meditative state and think about something else. A plain green field, a roaring beach, the deepness of space, whatever it is, just let your mind focus on another space and environment. Not only will you be less nervous, but your body can focus on what it is doing while your mind is allowing you to keep from cumming.

Modify Your Lube

There are desensitizing lotions and lubes you can use for your dick to keep you from cumming. Many guys avoid these because they think they won't feel any pleasure. This is not true, but it does calm down your nerves so your prick doesn't explore before you want it to. If you are nervous about trying out these products, try it out on your own while jerking off.

Pleasure to the Bottom

Instead of immediately getting blown or getting to the topping part. Spend some time focusing on your bottom. Try blowing or rimming him for a while. Try a long session of kissing or massaging them. This transfers the focus from your dick to your bottom. Spending some time on their body will give some foreplay time and pleasure on them before the actual fucking. This allows them to feel satisfied even if you cum a bit early. And just like the un-focus tip, this transfers your thoughts from your dick to someone else in the bedroom.

Put A Ring On It

Cock rings have become more and more popular in the bedroom for everyday sex. Not only does putting a cock ring on your banana make it stand at full attention and look bigger, but it will also help control the blood flow to prevent early cumming. Now, they make cock rings in all shapes and sizes. Try some out on your own before using them in the bedroom, make sure it is the right fit.

Practice Makes Perfect

Check out some edging techniques and try them out during your solo sessions. Challenge yourself and see how long you can last. Try to last longer and longer while looking at your favorite porn. This will train your junk how to last longer for the actual moment.

Switch Positions

Give your dick a challenge and change up your positions. If you cum quick by doing doggy style, try spooning or angled positions. This will shift the points of skin contact and give your dick something new to try, and increase the time of your thrusting.

Test Run

An hour or two before your date, jerk off. Plain and simple. This will make you last longer during the actual moment for sure. Just be carefuly, we've dated some guys that are totally over it the moment they cum, and aren't in the mood until the next day.

Look, cumming early has happened to just about everybody. There are plenty of gay jokes and gay eye-rolls when we hear that a guy exploded to soon, but it does happen regularly, just like some bottoms might be a little messy at times, it's sex, it happens, get over it. No need to berate yourself, no need to ghost your bottom, just try these tips and get back in the saddle!

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