Solo On Valentine’s Day? Date Night For 1 Ideas

Solo On Valentine's Day? Date Night For 1 Ideas

Well, some of us gays are doing it solo this year. As we look around at the other gays buying flowers, going on trips, and making reservations to celebrate Valentine's Day, we sit and wonder WTF we are going to do on this overblown holiday. Not to fear, you can have a bang-up solo date with just yourself and probably have a much better night than have to share the day with someone who chews loudly or who cums in three thrusts. Having a date on Valentine's Day can be overrated, doing it solo is where it's at this year. (Although, if you are looking for naughty couple ideas, we got you covered as well!)

Dinner for One

Are you a great cook? Are you a terrible cook? Doesn't matter. Try a recipe you've always wanted to try, or simply get a random cookbook, close your eyes, and pick a page. Make the day about going to the store to get the ingredients you need, get a couple of bottles of wine, turn up your favorite playlist, and go to town in the kitchen. Sipping the wine before, during, and after really adds to the experience. Don't play it safe, get a recipe that is challenging. You can go at your own pace and just enjoy some alone time in the kitchen. If it doesn't turn out great? Laugh it off, who cares? Turns out great? Eat that mofo all the way up yourself and enjoy every bite.

Get Physical

Even if you aren't an avid gym goer or fitness class devotee. Do something different and wake up your endorphins and get in tune with your body and break a sweat by doing an intro fitness class to something you've never done before. Hip-hop class? Zumba? Hot yoga? Whatever it is. Brush off the outside world and just enjoy the sweat.

Get Physical Part 2 

Just because you don't have a boo on Valentine's Day doesn't mean you can't get off. Hit the hookup apps. There will be a lot of horny single guys, and maybe a couple or two, who will be looking to hookup on this supposedly romantic night. You're single, go do you! Try something different. If you are always the top, be the bottom, and vice versa. Don't want to the hookup experience? Light some candles, dim the lights, turn on some porn, get out a bottle of lotion, and enjoy a nice solo edging session. See you long you can go without cumming. After that, see how many times you can come in a night. Your left or right hand (or both) might just be the perfect Valentine's Day date.

Table for One

A lot of us single gays think we have to be sequestered away while couples dominate the dinner scene. We think we aren't allowed at a restaurant at a table for one. Some of us are in our own heads and think people would make fun of us for having dinner alone in public on Valentine's Day. Who gives AF? Get out the credit card and go to a fancy restaurant you've always wanted to try. Order everything. Bring a good book to enjoy while you devour your feast. Or just keep staring at other couples and rolling your eyes as you cut into your steak.

Vacation

You can do a staycation or a full-blown vacation. Get yourself a hotel room and explore some random city or area you haven't really explored. Do the tourist stuff, head to the beach, go cruising, whatever, just break up the scene and get out of the house.

Club It Up

This Valentine's Day falls on a Friday. Put on our sexiest outfit, make it tight, show off the goods, and head out. There will be a lot of guys flying solo at the bars and clubs. Get off the apps and actually meet someone face to face. Or get sloshed and take over the dance floor. Just have fun.

Spa Night

Just like a solo sex night, a solo spa night can be just as enjoyable. Head to the store and get some fancy candles, some fancy face masks, eye masks, bubble bath. Turn down the lights, put on some music and do the spa routine on yourself from head to toe. Relax and unplug from life and enjoy pampering ourself.

Shop

Shop till you drop and pamper yourself. Who better to shop for on Valentine's Day than yourself? Get out the credit card and don't be stingy.

Movie Marathon

For those of us who love the cinema, escaping into a movie marathon sounds like the perfect solo date night. You can do this at home while scarfing down snack after snack, just cue up your TV and hunker down and watch your favorite movies or movies that you've always been meaning to get to. We also love getting bundled up in comfy clothes and heading to the movie theater. Theater popcorn just slaps a different way and you don't have to worry about someone else's grubby fingers digging into your bowl. See how many movies you can sneak into.

Massage

If you want to really pamper yourself. Order yourself a home masseuse. It is up to you what kind of massage you are looking for, but why not? Let someone else pay attention to you this Valentine's Day and let them relax your muscles and rub all your cares away.

What are your solo Valentine's Day ideas?

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