Gay Sex Tips for 2025!

Gay Sex Tips for 2025!

Hello, Fleshboters! New Year, new sex! Our mission here is to keep you guys hard and horny. We thought we'd start the year by sharing some gay sex tips to incorporate into your bedroom shenanigans in 2025. We've done the research, lol. Here's part one of our thoughts and tips on great gay sex.

Explore

Have a kink? There are so many of us that have kinks we've always fantasized about or wanted to explore. But many times that goes uncommunicated because we are afraid of being judged. Knock it off. If you want to explore some kinks in your gay sex, then open your mouth and communicate it! Don't be shy. There are many kinks out there and there is bound to be someone out there that shares them. Go have fun, go explore, and don't be shy.

Lube

No, not all lubes are created equal. Spend the extra money and get a good lube. Great lube can make or break a hot sex session. Don't be stingy either. The more lube, the more enjoyment. Friction sex isn't comfortable for anyone. Don't be afraid to mess up the sheets, lather it on for a fun ride. Do you have your tried and true brand you've been using since college? Go test some new versions, spice it up a bit.

Booty Sex

So, gay sex doesn't have to mean anal. There, we said it. A lot of us don't consider it sex unless someone has been penetrated. That is not the case. Oral, frottage, rimming, handjobs, and even dry humping can make for a really hot time and if there's cum, there's sex. Don't limit your bedroom actions just on the booty hole.

Safe Sex

Yes, there is Doxy and PrEP. But some of us are still taking precautions and use condoms. Don't be shy about demanding to use further protection if you want to, and don't shame anyone who wants to use a condom during sex. Safe sex is still sexy, and putting your health at risk isn't worth it. Do you, and don't be afraid to demand some extra measures if that's your thing. Also, try some ribbed condoms, trust us.

Edging

Edging is becoming quite popular and for good reason. Gay sex isn't just about getting to the orgasm, it's about the journey. Add some edging to your sex routine and see how it makes the final orgasm monumental. Edging with a partner also increases the bond and communication happening, making the coupling just that more intense.

The Setup

Nothing ruins a hot gay sex session than not having what you need closeby. Take the time to prepare for a hot session. Put a towel on the bed if you don't want a mess, have hand towels on standby for the cleanup, have the lube at arm's length, have a bottle of water handy, put the stuffed animals and family photos away, and have everything set up in advance so you can focus on the hookup.

Open Relationships

Not every relationship is going to cater to all of your sexual needs. Open relationships are often smiled about, assuming they don't work. The fact is, open relationships with good communication and honesty can and do work. We are sexual beings, and the gays can most often separate sex from love. In order for an open relationship to work, both parties need to be on board and rules need to be set.

Dress It Up

Most of us get into the bedroom and quickly strip off and get to the fucking. Want to prolong the fantasy and make the orgasm that much more intense? Dress your pussy up, lol. Put on a hot pair of underwear, or a jockstrap or thong, and don't be so quick to take it off. Dressing up the fantasy makes it that much more erotic.

Size Doesn't Matter

The fact is, a guy's prostate is about three inches from the anus. That's all it takes to make someone feel good. We've been conditioned from porn to glorify a big dick. While beautiful to look at, a big dick isn't necessary to have a good time. If you are on the smaller side, learn what angles and body thrusts work better for what you are packing. Don't be shy, the average penis size is around 5 inches fully erect. Foreplay, expert rimming, and hot sex positions can make up for lack of size.

Vocalize

Don't just regulate your hot sex session to grunts and light moans. Get vocal about it! Add some dirty talk and some loud moans to really get your partner going. Sex is hot, and it can be loud. Adding some hot audio to the situation engages another sense, making it orgasmic on many different levels.

Experiment

So many of us have our certain types when it comes to gay sex and we don't budge. Into twinks? Into only gym rats? Try expanding your scope and try out a different type not usually on your go-to list. Different body types and different ages all have something new to add to the mix. You might be surprised how your sex session can change for the better if you mix up your ingredients. Don't get so stuck on a certain type.

We will be back with more sex tips for the new year, stay tuned!

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