Koaty & Sumner: Navigating An Open Relationship

October 7, 2024
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Koaty & Sumner: Navigating An Open Relationship

It's been a year for gay adult influencers Koaty & Sumner. Sumner's star with studio work continues to rise, the couple continues to put out hotter than hot content on OnlyFans, they are working the comedy game on TikTok, and the two made their reality TV debut for Tubi's House of Heat, all while navigating the ups and downs of a long term relationship. The two actually met at a threesome and now, years later, are preparing for a big, gay wedding. During their time on House of Heat, we got an inside look at how the couple deals with working in the adult industry, producing content, and keeping the spark in their relationship strong. They stopped by to chat about their open relationship and the rules they have in place to ensure that it works for everyone involved.

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Top Rules of Having an Open Relationship

1. Check-In Regularly: We make sure to regularly talk about how we’re feeling and what’s turning us on. Keeping each other in the loop about our desires and any new experiences helps us stay connected and keeps things exciting.

2. Clear Communication: We’re upfront about what we want and need, including sharing details about any encounters we have with others. Honesty keeps everything transparent and turns up the heat between us.

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3. No Secrets: We don’t hide anything about our solo adventures or experiences with others. Whether it’s a spontaneous encounter or a one-time fling, we share the details to keep the excitement alive and avoid surprises.

4. Quality Time Together: We prioritize our time as a couple, ensuring we have regular date nights and intimate moments. This keeps our bond strong and our passion focused on each other, even if we play with others occasionally.

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5. Veto Power: We each have the right to veto any new partner or situation if it doesn’t feel right. It’s our way of keeping things thrilling but safe, ensuring that every experience respects our boundaries and keeps our connection strong.

Check out their new podcast, In Bed with Koaty & Sumner, where they take a deep dive into love, sex, and relationships.

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Koaty & Sumner also shared their favorite threesome position!

The position is commonly known as the “sandwich” or “three-way sandwich." The bottom lies on their back, receiving penetration from one partner. The other partner enters from behind the first partner, penetrating them doggie style. This position allows for simultaneous stimulation and close contact among all three participants. It's our favorite!