Chad’s Gay Sex Tips: Handling A Hung Guy

August 31, 2024
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Chad's Gay Sex Tips: Handling A Hung Guy

Hey, Sexies! This Chad's Sex Tip column is no joke. We've all seen the hookup apps calling for hung guys, or guys showing off that they are a packing heat. Sometimes, it's true, oftentimes, it is not. But there have been those moments when we unzip our date's pants and a super hog pops out. Yasssss! Here's the truth, even though it is a gay fantasy to be with someone who is packing, many times if someone is that big, it can be tough to take. In addition to getting lockjaw (no joke), our hole sometimes isn't able to handle all that meat. So I'm here this week to give you some tips on handling a big banana. Our holes are pretty adaptable with some work and are made to expand. But sometimes this takes a little work.

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Practice Makes Perfect

If you are on the quest to ride a big dick, you have to practice. Sex toys are the absolute best thing to practice with, there is no pressure from someone else in the room, you can take your time, and you can get a variety of sizes to train your hole to take more. Start small, and move your way up. The muscles in your hole will get trained and you will start to feel more at ease with bigger things in you. Get ready for that hung guy!

Foreplay

Some of us gays forget the foreplay and go right for the sex, especially when it's a Grindr hookup. Here's the thing, foreplay can ease your anxiety about riding a big one. Take your time and enjoy the process, kissing can build a bond of intimacy and trust, even if you are with a hookup stranger. This will open you up. Also, make sure your hung top takes his time rimming you, and uses his fingers to open you up a bit, your hole will relax, and get you ready for the big moment. Dry humping and "hot dog in a bung," when the top just slides his unit between your cheeks without getting to your hole, are also good ways to ease into it.

Lube

Duh. This goes without saying. But finding the right kind of lube that feels good and causes less friction is essential when handling a hung guy. Spit, while sexy, is just not going to open you up like a good lube will. When you practice with different sex toys, also try out different lubes and what feels right for you and what creates the easiest and slickest entry.

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Communicate

Just as eager you are to open your mouth the swallow Moby Dick, also use your mouth to communicate. Tell your top what is feeling good, and absolutely tell them when it is getting too intense or if you just can't take it that day. Forcing yourself to complete penetration when it isn't feeling good is the worst thing you can do. Also, grinning and bearing it can actually cause physical damage to your hole if you just can't handle it that day. Being a bottom is being a champ, we don't always have to suffer in silence.

Position

When handling a hung guy, you want to make sure that you are the one in control. Position is everything. When starting with a big dick, I suggest riding him cowboy style. You can use your legs and arms to control the depth and timing in guiding your big mate into your ass. You can feel your hole start to open up and move an inch further down. Don't let him start pounding until you are fully opened up, take your time.