How To Host A HookUp Like A Gentleman

How to Host A HookUp Like A Gentleman! 

We love the thrill of logging on to a hookup app, finding a hottie, and heading to his house to do the deed. He opens the door and he looks just like his pics, and you are ready to go! Here's the thing, the ultimate boner kill...he doesn't know how to host. What the??? Guys, it is so easy to be a good host and just because it is a hookup, you can still be a gentleman and up your hosting game. Being a good host makes your chosen gay feel wanted and appreciated, and will equal hotter sex. Guaranteed! It's all in the details.

Checking In

It is a hookup so you don't need to be Oprah and engage in an interview and it's not Dr. Phil so you don't need to share your life story. BUT! You should welcome your guest and make them feel at ease. Going to a new place to have sex with a new stranger comes with some nerves, so take a moment before you devour your prey to check in with them. Greet them and walk with them to the bedroom, give them a moment to look around and feel comfortable in their surroundings. Ask them if they need anything, ask them if it's too hot or too cold, and show them where they can put their things. Set the tone for what's about to happen. Treat them like a guest, not just a piece of meat. Ask them how they are feeling, then ask them if they are ready to rumble. You can also take this moment to discuss likes and dislikes when it comes to bedroom stuff. Being a gracious host doesn't mean you can't get down and dirty in the sheets, but taking those moments will create a great atmosphere.

 

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Stock Up

You are taking the responsibility of hosting and not having to get in the car and drive all over the place to have your romp. You have taken the lead, so be ready to host and that means having supplies on hand and within reach. Depending on where you are going to do the deed, assuming it is in the bedroom, have a bottle of lube, poppers (if that's your thing), an unopened bottle of water, a cum rag or full towel for cleanup, and condoms (if you use them). Having things within reach will take care of any awkward pauses during the hookup and it shows you are thinking of your "date's" needs. Also, the opposite of stocking up is to put away. Put away the family photo on your nightstand, put the pets in the other room, and put your childhood stuffed animal away from the bed. All little touches.

 

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Clean Your Damn House

No, you aren't hosting your parents for dinner, but you should still be aware of how messy or dirty your house is. There is nothing as unsexy as a trash can overflowing in the bedroom, smelly shoes and laundry all over the floor, empty pizza boxes on the dresser, or a dirty toilet. These things can ruin the mood. You don't have to be a five-star hotel, but it shouldn't look like a hostel. Take a few moments to wipe down the bathroom (trust us, they will be using it at some point), do a quick walk-through and pick up any out-of-place items, make sure your bed is made, and spray a little Febreeze. And again, clean your damn toilet!

 

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The Artful Goodbye

So you cum and now what?  Make sure they have an opportunity to clean up. Again, make sure there are towels available and help them clean up the mess, you helped cause it too. Some gays disagree on offering their sex mate a shower. Though you probably don't want your guy to linger, offering a shower is the gentlemanly thing to do. There's also that awkward moment when you wait for your hookup to find his pants and tie his shoes. Don't just stare at him, it is super uncomfortable. Once he's ready to go, give him a once over and make sure there's no cum in his hair or a condom wrapper sticking to his back. Check in with them and make sure they have everything they brought with them. And even if the hookup was terrible, thank them for coming. You don't need to make promises to see each other again or profess your love, but a thank you is always in order. Don't stop being a gentleman just because you got what you wanted, walk them out to the door. This also ensures they don't take anything on the way out. LOL.

It just takes a little effort to be a perfect host. Once word spreads that yours is the place to be, you can be a gentleman many times a week!

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