Dating A Guy with A Small Dick

August 6, 2024
ALEXANDER

Dating A Guy with A Small Dick

We've all been there. You have a great date with a totally handsome guy, you get hot and heavy making out, and he asks if you should move to the bedroom, you take off your shirts while falling all over each other, waiting for that magic moment! You take his belt off, unzip his pants, and... you can't find anything. Then you search further to find a little hard nub, what's a gay to do? Even though it seems the gays are obsessed with big dicks, dating a guy with a small dick isn't the end of the world and if you are looking for a relationship, there are ways to have a great sex and love life with someone who is not packing.

First of all, let's get away from porn expectations. Not everyone is 8 inches or more, no matter what the guys on Grindr say. The medical field agrees that the average erect penis is 5.1 inches. That means there are some bigger, and some smaller. Also, getting away from the porn world, not all bottoms can take a full 8 inches comfortably or often. There's a lot to be said by being average.

Ok, moving on, there are cases where some guys fall below the average. Unless you identify as asexual, sex is a big part of a healthy relationship. For some, exploring the intimate and relationship part of the coupling can overcome a small dick. If you are totally in love with him, you can get used to it, can think of other things to do in the bedroom, or focus on other body parts. For some of us gays, especially if you are a bottom, we just can't get used to a micro dick. Just be honest with yourself and if you shudder at the thought of dealing with a teeny weeny, end it now before you truly hurt some feelings. If you can't feel it, you won't enjoy sex and you will just end up cheating or resenting him for it. For those who are totally in love and can see past the small package, read on!

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Sex Toys

There are many sex toys that can take the place of a small dick. Obviously, we know what dildos are and how they work. If you are a bottom, your small guy can put on a strap on, use a dildo on you, and both of you still get the sensation of having sex. There are also penis sleeves that can affix to the dick and can artificially lengthen what your man has. Double-sided dildos also work if you are both verses.

Take the Attention

The thing about gays with a small dick, they know it and will be willing to explore any ways to make you feel pleasure. Want to explore kink? Want more attention on you and your body? Enjoy the attention, they will do what they need to make you happy. Enjoy all the extra focus. And, do your part and focus on other parts of his body. The penis is one organ on a body full of potential. Nipple play, rimming, feet worship, frottage, and massage are all other things you can easily do.

Try Other Sex Positions

Doggy style will also work better than missionary. You can spread the cheeks apart and really get in there. Also, the small dick top can massage the balls or nipples during, increasing stimulation. Still, you may not be able to feel it if he is very small. There's also the elevated reverse cowboy. Have the small top put a cushion under his pelvis, turn around and straddle him, facing away from him, and ride him like a cowboy. This diminishes any space between your ass and his dick. Also, try the T-Bone. Use a couch or other furniture piece where the top lies between two arm rests. Put your legs on one set of arms, use your arms and hands to leverage your weight on the other set of arms, holding yourself up, creating a small "t" formation. He can thrust into, with only your pelvises touching. This will minimize the distance between body organs.

Open Relationship

We've given threesomes, cuckolding, and open relationships as possibilities when there are two tops or two bottoms dating. This one is tricky with a small dick situation. Most times, a guy with a small dick will get jealous about seeing their partner with another guy who is hung because it literally is something they can't compete with. It isn't about aesthetic, it's about body limitations. You are born with what you are born with.

When you aren't focused on the dick, you will find other ways to be intimate and ultimately, could grow a more potent bond quicker because you are exploring and focusing on who you are dating, and not what you are dating. It's all about body acceptance. All of us gays have at least one body part we aren't happy with, this is just one of them. Also, dating a guy who isn't just using his dick size for attention can be more attentive and more in tune with his confidence.

Let's face it, we all love sex. Sex doesn't just mean anal, and there is more to a real relationship other than just sex. Try it out, explore, but above all, be honest with yourself and with him. If you can't do small dick, you can't do small dick.