Two Tops in A Relationship, How to Make it Work: Chad Sex Tips

Two Tops in A Relationship, How to Make it Work

Hey yooooo! What's up, Sexy Beasts? As you know, I answer your weekly, sexy questions about all things dating and sex. Well, lately there's been an issue with you horny gays that has been popping up over and over, so I thought I'd do a special Sex Tips all about it. What happens when you meet the man of your dreams, you fall in love, his credit score is over 750, and then you realize...he's a top too. Like he only tops. And you, you only top. Like only. What's a girl to do? Calm down, girl, it can work. Believe it or not, two tops can lead a fabulous life together with hot times in the bedroom. I've put some tips together that you can try to make it work.

Blowjobs

I mean duh, giving each other blowjobs is a no-brainer. I do know there are some tops out there who don't know or are not into giving blowjobs. Get over it! I'll be writing a blowjob tip column for this next edition. But in the meantime, if neither one of you is going to give up your rosebud, get down on your knees and bring your man to completion.

Frottage

Frottage is getting erotic stimulation by rubbing against something. Rub your dicks together while making out, rub your dicks on each other's thighs, dry hump, just get those dicks rubbing on each other! It can bring you both to climax at the same time and it can stimulate the feel of anal. Fun fact: Did you know that thigh sex is called intercrural sex?

Handjobs/Edging

Who says sex always has to include anal. There is an art to handjobs and sometimes, it can create a close communication/emotional bond as you tend to the needs of your other top. Edging and multiple demanded orgasms can all play a part in having a hot handjob/edging session. These sessions can be extremely gratifying and make sense with two tops. Check out my handjob tips here.

 

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Sex Toys

Sex toys don't always mean dildos. There are sex toys for tops too. There are vibrating cock rings and my favorite, the Fleshlight. Take turns using the Fleshlight on each other. If both of you are uncut, you can try docking. If both of you are cut, you can get a docking sex toy. Don't know what docking is? It is basically when one dick is "docked" into the foreskin of another. It creates friction and intense shaft sensations. There are also rubber asses you can get and take turns on.

Hot Dogging

This is a fun term, you've not heard of it? It is basically fake anal sex, but it feels good and it's like the vegan version of eating a hamburger. So, get your boy to turn over, ass cheeks up. Lube up your dick, and slide between his cheeks, but parallel, not perpendicular. Much like a hot dog in a bun, nestle yourself in between the buns and slide up and down, grinding hard. The lube and ass cheek friction will stimulate sex. It's like titty fucking for gays. No, it's not the full feeling of being inside, but it is a hell of a substitute.

Threesomes

This can be tricky. You need to have little to no jealousy issues and have great communication with your significant other. But threesomes with an eager bottom can be really hot. Get an eager hole that both of you can have fun with at the same time, there are endless positions and activities that you can do. Both of you get the sensation of having sex together and topping while someone else takes care of the anal part. Take it from me, it is better to get a bottom off of Grindr or elsewhere; sometimes inviting someone from your friendship circle can be tricky. I did write all about the reality of threesomes in my last column.

Cuckolding

This is an age-old tradition, watching your partner with someone else. If your man really needs to top, or if you do, and you have a solid relationship without jealousy, invite a power bottom over who can take it over and over. One of you sits in a chair or on the bed and watches the other have sex while you jerk off. Make sure you set up rules before, like no kissing, or only certain activities, or let your man go free. There is a hot voyeur/exhibitionist element that adds to it. This has a different power dynamic than a threesome. It's like watching live porn, only your man is the one of the stars! Check out our article with all of the info about cuckolding.

Rimming

Why can't tops realize that it feels good to be rimmed? Just cause you don't like to take it in the butt doesn't mean your hole can't get some attention. Getting rimmed feels good, rimming is hot. So why not try it on each other? A hot rim session can be super hot. Try rimming your top boyfriend while he rubs his dick against the mattress, the friction and your rimming can make him cum. Or rim each other and then engage in any of the above.

 

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These are just some tips to keep things spicy in the bedroom while you are dating another top. Next time, I'll talk about how two bottoms can make it work!

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