How to Last Longer in the Bedroom: Chad’s Sex Tips!

Hello Boys! Here I am again with my bedroom tips...last time I instructed tops on how to be better tops...did y'all listen? My tops seem to be doing better in the bedroom, so maybe. LOL. Lately, there seems to be another issue taking the spotlight, and that's me taking a long time to prepare for a "date" just to have my hookup be done in a matter of minutes. WTF? I didn't eat lunch, I had to clean out, I had to do all the work...for five minutes of sex? No, thank you! I don't blame the top, the human body is the human body. But there are some ways you can last longer if you are quick to the draw.

Practice on your own! The art of edging can help in many ways. Usually, when we jerk off we do it quick and get about our day. If you have issues cumming too fast, try some long edging sessions and see how long you can go before the climax. Take your time, bring yourself to the brink, and then curtail it back. It will condition your dick on not needing to orgasm right away. It will also put you in tune with your own body so you can feel and be able to control when you are going to finish.

 

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Desensitize! This is a hit-or-miss suggestion. But there are creams and gels out there that can desensitize your dick. It's like anesthesia so even if the results keep you from cumming, it also may keep you from feeling pleasure. I've heard different things from my tops, some love it and some hate it. Just try it, see what happens. Make sure you wipe off before you start topping, it can also affect your bottom. LOL.

Jerk off before! If you know you are going to have a hot hookup session, jerk off before! This will bring your sperm banks back to zero and will take you longer to reach another climax. Trust me, this is the easiest solution.

Work out! We've all heard of Kegel exercises for women. Funny enough, this helps with men too. Do some pelvic floor exercises and work that muscle out. This will not only help with premature ejaculation but will also help with any urinary issues.

Lose some weight. We all love our bears. That being said, guys with waist sizes of 40 inches or more have been scientifically found to have ejaculation issues. This also goes hand in hand with cholesterol and blood sugar levels.

Foreplay! You don't need to get right to the anal sex. Spend more time during the foreplay session, you can control what's happening more and you can prolong the sex session without penetrative sex. Spend time on your partner's body so they feel like they've had a good session before even having actual sex.

 

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Squeeze it! This is a tried and true maneuver. When you feel like you are going to cum, pull out and literally squeeze the tip of your penis hard. Keep doing it till you feel the need to cum subsides. Trust me, it works!

Change it up! If you feel like you are going to cum too fast during sex, simply change positions. This gives your dick a brief rest and it also resets the session. This can help you last longer. Plus, it's fun to change it up!

What are your long-lasting sex tips? Email me! [email protected]