Gay Kinks Explained: Demanded Multiple Orgasms

Gay Kinks Explained: Demanded Multiple Orgasms

We love exploring the world of gay kinks and fetishes. You learn something new every time you take a deep dive. Did you know about the world of demanded multiple orgasms? Most of us have heard of edging, the art of stretching out a handjob or jerk off session and (pun intended) coming close to orgasm, but pulling back at the last moment. You do that as long as you can until you finally reach an immense orgasm. Previously, we talked about gooning, which is a super intense version of edging that can last hours. Well, demanded orgasms are the complete opposite, in a way.

 

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Don't be fooled by the aggressive name. A demanded, multiple orgasm is agreed upon by both partners and is usually part of the BDSM/kink world. Usually, but not always, the receiver of this type of orgasm is restrained (with pre-communicated safe words). Basically, instead of curbing a climax, the giver will stimulate the penis (through hand, orifice, or sex toy) to climax and then immediately start in again, bringing the receiver to climax multiple times in succession. Most of us are like, um, we can't cum multiple times in one go! Well, you'd be surprised. Sometimes, once we cum, the urge is gone and that sex drive goes out the window. When you are subservient to someone else your body will respond automatically and even if you can't get fully hard, you can still climax and often times each climax in succession is even more intense than just a regular one. You are driven into a state of extreme euphoria, and you can even climax even if you have no cum left. Your body will release a ridiculous amount of endorphins.

The nice thing about this kink is that you don't really need anything. You can use restraints or not, you can use sex toys or just your hands. It is easy and can be done anywhere (kinky!) and anytime. Although orgasms are enjoyable, continuous orgasms can be painful or the skin on the penis can start to chafe so make sure you have lotion and safe words in place. If your partner says enough is enough, then stop immediately. You can also just call for a pause (yellow light) to give the receiver a breather before continuing.

 

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It is recommended to keep it easy going at first. Incorporate restraints and sex toys later. You don't want to throw everything at the wall at once, it might ruin your first multiple orgasm experience. This isn't for everyone, for some it might be a surprise how good keeping going towards the next climax can be, for some, it just is not a fun experience. Just be honest, but open, to what feels good in this scenario.

If you are the giver, we've put together some great hand job tips.

Have you tried demanded orgasms? Let us know!