F*cking With AJ Sloan: Tis the Season for Fat Fetishism

I hope everybody had a fan-f*cking -tastic holiday full of (chosen) family, friends, and food. Yes, we partake in the holidays to connect with the people that we love but many would agree that it is that last one — the food — that makes the holidays what they are. So many take this time of year to set aside their strict dietary practices and indulge themselves on seasonally appropriate cuisine. But not everyone holds out for the holiday season. After all, there are as many different relationships with food as there are relationships with people. This week, I thought I’d delve into a topic that would feel appropriate reading while we all enjoy our Thanksgiving leftovers. That topic, my fellow pigs, is Fat Fetishism and the delicious world of Gainers.

In the ever-evolving world of human sexuality, there exists a realm that revolves around the fascination with body size. The phenomenon of fat fetishism encompasses a variety of practices, from gaining and feeding to stuffing and padding. Fat fetishism, also referred to as "feederism" or "gaining," involves receiving sexual satisfaction from the process of gaining or assisting others in gaining weight rather than fixating on the fat itself. This community has found a place within the folds of body positivity movements.

The community is sprawling, including but not limited to “gaining” (intentional weight gain), “feeding” (assisting someone else in gaining weight), “hogging” (seeking out fat partners for sexual exploitation), and “squashing” (attraction to being crushed by a fat person). These subcultures often reflect and exaggerate existing stereotypes related to body size.

 

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One main component of fat fetishism is ‘feedism,’ where gainers and feedees actively participate in the fantasy (or reality) of gaining weight. Encouragers and feeders, who derive pleasure from assisting someone else in gaining weight, play significant roles in this dynamic. While some may label these practices as fetishes, many within the gainer and feedism communities view them as more of a lifestyle, identity, or even a sexual orientation.

The psychological motivations driving fat fetishism are sprawling and multifaceted. For some, the appeal lies in the transformation of the body, viewing weight gain as an intimate and shared experience that enhances a sense of connection and intimacy. The act of feeding or encouraging becomes a shared journey, creating emotional bonds between partners. The “taboo” nature of these practices likely fuel the arousal, as many folks find excitement in exploring unconventional desires.

The psychology may also intertwine with concepts of dominance and submission, as seen in the roles of feeders and feedees. Some may derive satisfaction from the act of nurturing and facilitating weight gain, while others find pleasure in surrendering control over their bodies. Overall, the psychological motivations behind fat fetishism highlight the diverse and personal nature of human desire.

The world of fat fetishism is complex, nuanced, and widely misunderstood. As with any aspect of human sexuality, it is important to approach these topics with an understanding of the diverse motivations and dynamics that are consistently at play here. While fat fetishism may challenge societal norms, it's important to recognize the consensual nature of these practices and engage in open conversations that promote understanding rather than fueling already existing stereotypes. So, fix yourself a plate of leftovers, pop that bad boy in the microwave, and know that you’re f*cking beautiful. There’s a whole multiverse of people out there who would agree.

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