F*cking With AJ Sloan: Edging to the Edge of Glory & Back

November 10, 2023
AJ SLOAN

All good things cum to an end but who’s in a hurry? It’s been a minute, but last week I had the pleasure of taking a seat for my new best friend and renowned NYC edging master The Prince of Edging (legal name) and we dabbled in the art of delayed delight… to completion. The practice of edging truly amps up arousal to the next level and will have you leaking like a faucet before shooting to the stars. Don’t take my word for it, let the evidence speak for itself…

For those readers who have yet to discover this particular knob-hobby, edging is a sexual practice that involves delaying orgasm to prolong sexual stimulation to varying degrees. The concept is akin to hitting the brakes right before the point of no return, allowing practitioners to revel in heightened sensation and anticipation before eventually experiencing a more intense load launch. The allure of edging lies in exploring one's sensory and physiological thresholds.

The psychological dynamics surrounding the arousal of relinquishing control to another can be quite intricate. Edging involves the deliberate delay busting one’s wad, often under the guiding hand of another. This experience can trigger a range of psychological responses, including a heightened sense of vulnerability, trust, and surrender. By giving up control over sexual pleasure, individuals may find themselves in a state of next-level excitement, and anticipation.

The act of ceding (not seeding) control during edging can also evoke feelings of submission and surrender, allowing individuals to immerse themselves in the present moment and fully entrust their pleasure to their dom other. Such a surrender can lead to a deep sense of intimacy and trust, making for a stronger emotional and physical bond. Sold yet?

As the edger, the motivations for engaging in this niche brand of rub-n-tug can vary. Some may have the desire to exert control and dominance over another, fulfilling fantasies centered around power dynamics and sexual gratification for all involved parties. Others may be drawn to taking charge of their partner's sexual experience and pleasure, feeding a sense of empowerment and confidence. Some individuals may be motivated by the idea of creating and maintaining heightened senses of excitement for their edgee.

The overarching motivations for edging others often revolve around the exploration of power dynamics and the pursuit of mutual satisfaction. The mental aspects that draw folks into the world of edging revolve around the interplay of trust, and vulnerability. I have been an appreciator and practitioner of the sport, both as the giver and receiver, for some time now and look forward to many more long and hard sessions to cum. Now if you’d excuse me, I have to get some rest before round 2 with The Prince of Edging in the morning. I’ve got a batch of brogurt brewing for 4 days now and it’s all his…