Off 2 On With Bobby Beyond: How To Properly Finger A Bussy

September 12, 2023
BOBBY BEYOND

You either love it, hate it, or don’t really know how to feel about it. But fingering is an intimate part of foreplay for many sexually penetrative experiences, often the initial one. There are techniques to make it pleasurable, and some that can make the experience unbearable. Where is the line between the two? How do you know when or what to do? And what to do with those fingernails?! You’re reading Off 2 On with Bobby Beyond, and I’m gonna help you with your finger game!

Touch is a love language in itself, and speaking someone’s language is key to maximizing and optimizing your sexual experiences. When his hands are hitting just the right spots, it can turn the heat up to 100! But when they’re not, it can make you just want to kick him out and go to bed! The first thing is first, you have to trim and clean your nails! They should be trimmed to the fingertip, enough so that there isn’t an overhang to scratch someone’s insides. Next, you must clean them well, making sure there isn’t any gunk between your nail and fingertip. No one wants a dirty claw going into their bussy!

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Next is all about knocking at the door before you enter. You can’t just barge into someone’s house, same with their hole. Best practice is to rim them prior to fingering, however, if rimming doesn’t take place you can apply your favorite lube directly to their hole and your fingers. Then you’ll want to rub the outside in slow, small circles. Rim his hole with your fingertips as if you’re slowly and softly ringing his doorbell. Next, it’s time to slowly dip inside, just the tip though. Dip in about a quarter of an inch and push around in a circle. Then once you feel them opening up, it’s time for more.

Once you enter their hole, go slow and in small strokes. Check in and make sure things feel okay before proceeding to the full length of the finger. Don’t go fast, that can cause tearing and ruin the experience before it starts. Once the full finger is in, do the “come here” finger motion. Stroking against the area their balls are in. That’s where the prostate is, AKA the male G-Spot. This is their lovin’ button! Press lightly against the prostate and massage it with your fingertips while inside.

After they open up fully to the finger, you can ask if it’s okay to add another. Start slow again and work your way up to a moderate speed. This will help open him up prior to penis penetration, and make the experience easier and more pleasurable. Fingering can be an integral component to foreplay, or it can end things before they start. Be patient and attentive to your bottom as you enter their bussy, and remember everything I’ve taught you to create the most satisfying fingering experience they’ve ever had!