Sorry for Asking Recap: Mr. Pam Talks Love, Life, And Being A Woman In Gay Porn

Hello friends! There’s a brand new episode of Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor! This one is a fun one! Today, Adam and Cole are joined by the fabulous and iconic Mr. Pam! Mr. Pam is an award-winning adult film director, event host, producer, and photographer. Mr. Pam joined Adam and Cole from Vegas via Zoom! She talked about getting her name from her first job editing a gay porn movie. She said the company didn’t want to share that she was a woman so they called her Mr. Pam, and the rest is history!

Mr. Pam talked about starting her career and working so many different jobs before starting directing. She told the story of directing her first orgy with nine guys and having to get things started on her own. She even showed us a copy of the DVD from that day! Her story is so inspiring! Mr. Pam really had to work her way to the top, and never gave up. She talked about growing up outside of San Francisco and attending a Catholic school.

Pam told a story about how her dad worked in the wine business. She said that he traded wine for a camera, and she would use that camera to do photoshoots with her sister. She showed one of the pictures she took where she dressed her sister up and did her makeup. Pam took pictures of her and still has one of them framed in her office. There was a really cool moment where Pam talked about shooting in Austria in 2020. She said she was there when the Covid lockdowns happened and had to get everyone on her team out of there before the travel ban went into effect. She had to gather everyone at 1:00 AM and hurry to get everyone back home before they were stuck there. That was back when we thought it would only last for two weeks. Remember that lie?

I didn’t know this, but Mr. Pam was in a relationship with a gay performer! She talked about being a director and dating one of the performers. Pam shared a lot about the struggles of dating within the industry, saying it was her best and worst relationship. She talked about how conflict would come when she was directing her partner, or even sometimes not directing him. It sounds so stressful! But also kind of hot! 

This episode was so fun and insightful! Mr. Pam is a legend in gay porn, and everyone needs to know her story. She has endless stories and so much knowledge to share. So check out this episode! And watch the video version to see a cameo from her dog, Poop!

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