Sorry For Asking: Derek Kage Talks The Military, Utah, and Chastity

May 24, 2023
JORDAN JAYRO

Oh, hey! Can you believe it?! There’s a brand new episode of Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor! This one is a doozy! Adam and Cole are joined by a very special guest, the iconic Derek Kage. Derek is so dreamy and shared a lot about himself and his experience in the adult industry. You’re not going to want to miss this episode!

We hadn’t reached the one-minute mark and there was already talk of ear fucking. And once I heard Derek Kage’s deep, seductive voice, I understood why. Derek talked about how his voice changed when he was 11 and he’s had a baritone speaking voice ever since then. I was so mesmerized listening to him speak. Derek talked about doing logistics in the military. Apparently, he was in charge of the small explosives that are used to eject seats in the Air Force. I’m sweating already.

Cole Connor has this weird thing about not liking people from DC. He says there are a lot of DL guys, which I hadn’t thought about until now. It makes sense that there would be a ton of guys who probably work in politics and aren’t out of the closet. Adam chimed in that he interned in Congress when he was 18! I have so many follow-up questions! Derek lived in DC for nearly ten years before moving to Utah.

Derek talked about starting porn days before Covid hit. He just barely missed the cutoff to be a pandemic porn star! Cole said that he didn’t start doing porn until Covid. Derek shared details of his past marriage, and how he and his husband lived in Utah. But he wasn’t thrilled when Derek started porn. He says his husband left him when Derek showed an interest in doing studio porn. Is it rude to say that’s the trash taking itself out? Maybe. I don’t care though. Derek talked about being in a dark place at that time and needed to make a change.

I learned so much from hearing Derek talk about chastity play. He revealed that he has dabbled in wearing a chastity cage. Derek talked about the power dynamics of chastity play and thought it was so hot knowing that one person had the key to the cage and decided when to let the other partner unlock it. There are instances of people being able to reach orgasm while wearing the cage. I learned that you can also cum from prostate stimulation while wearing a cage.

This episode was so fun and insightful! I think it’s time we start a position to get Derek Kage to do a podcast! Or maybe he can record audiobooks, or be the voice in all the movie trailers. Someone book him immediately!

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