“For The Love of DILFS” Contestant Spotlight: Daddy Alex Tikas

February 11, 2023
PRINCE JOSHUA

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Introducing Daddy Alex from For The Love Of DILFS. This hunky bear of a man is native to New York and recently moved to Ft. Lauderdale. With many talents in and out of the bedroom, Alex spends his time producing, directing, and modeling in adult films as well as his OnlyFans. When he’s not performing in front of the camera you can catch his furry and beefy body gogo dancing at the Eagle, or any other Bear event he can get his paws in. With an open mind, Alex was hesitant to join the cast, but thankfully the DaddyTV team convinced him, as we need more sexy bears to be represented on TV and shine light on the fact that sex workers want and deserve love just as much as anyone else.

How was your experience being on "For The Love Of DILFS"?

I considered it an adventure! This is something that I would normally say no to without thinking twice. But it was a chance to make a connection and

I am at a point in my life where I need to say YES more. It was a blast. The Crew and everyone involved was lovely and VERY serious about the mission of the series.

Do you have any regrets about what you wish you would have done or said?

I wish I asked Charles Moriarty out on a date WOOF! He was one of the Daddys. But he lives in London and maybe I'm giving the producers some inspiration for another series idea! I stand by my words and actions on the show and felt it was important to be as genuine and open-hearted as I could. Otherwise, what's the point?

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Did this show teach you anything about yourself you didn’t know before?

I learned on this show truly that it's really important to say what you mean and mean what you say. I also learned that guys that I would never consider " my type " were actually really sexy and interesting.

What would it take to win the heart and love of Alex?

"Never be so kind, you forget to be clever. Never be so clever, You forget to be kind ... "

To win my heart: funny and weird like Jinx Monsoon, kind-hearted, a beautiful pair of eyes, the fuzzier the better, handsome, non-judgmental, zero sanctimony, zero slut-shaming, anonymous benevolence, humble, a man of very few and thoughtful words. I also kinda like a guy with a really big dick.. am I allowed to say that?

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What is the worst & best date you’ve been on?

The best date? Still waiting... I have had some great dates, that have led to a couple of great relationships ... BUT THE BEST DATE? meh.

The worst date? The worst date didn't happen ... the story goes, the hottest of hottest guys asked me out .. I immediately said no cause he was way out of my league and a waste of time. He asked and asked and asked. Finally, I relented... I figured why not. He picked the time and the place. He never showed up. Then apologized the next day 'cause he was drunk. Which was a lie cause his Facebook showed he was skiing -- with his ex. You only get one chance.

Do you feel you were able to show who you are as a person on the show?

I came into the show knowing I had no other choice. I didn't wanna be fake or lie. I didn't wanna create stories that would have exploded in my face.

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What’s your advice for those who want to date a sex worker?

Don't waste my (OUR) fucking time if you're jealous, insecure, possessive, and want me to stop working. I am not a prize and you are not here to save me. You are not here to change me. I am not here to fit the narrative that makes you feel comfortable enough to introduce me to "Aunt Gladys". Unless you want to support me instead of me working then SURE. I am HAPPY to be your husband with the SUV and the two babies from Guatemala and the Labradoodle. Bring it! But it's 10k a month. I would need a contract and a 6-month advance and a daily stipend ... definitely a stipend.

What’s your best advice for other adult industry workers looking for love?

You are good enough. You are beautiful enough and you are worthy enough to receive the love that you deserve. Say NO to "potential". Don't let ANYONE make you feel ashamed of who you are and what you do. Be mindful of micro-aggressive comments at your expense. My strongest advice? LET THEM TALK. Who gives a shit.

What is next for Alex?

Alex is going to Spain for the European Grabby awards in April. In August, I turn 50 so I am planning a " WHITE LOTUS" adventure with a lot of "Tanya" moments lol (except the falling off the boat in kitten heels part .. spoiler alert).