If you’re like us, you like to give some love all year long—sometimes slow and sensually, and other times fast like a jackhammer. During the holiday season, who doesn’t love seeing the delight spurting onto people’s faces as they unwrap your package? We know that sometimes the biggest pleasure comes from small packages, and that’s why we’ve assembled the Cybersocket 2022 Stocking Stuffers Gift Guide. We’ve collected some of the most modest but mightiest gifts from our favorite queer-owned companies, so you can share some love with your chosen family. Take a scroll and get your stockings stuffed today!
LeatherDaddy Cologne Sample
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If Daddy’s treated you well this year, get on his nice list with the LeatherDaddy cologne sampler. This fragrance is made with essences of leather, scotch, and vanilla to compliment a man’s natural scent and arouse the attention of any room. Show Daddy just how much you want to smell him today.
$13 on leatherdaddyskin.com.
December Diamonds “Poke the Bear” Christmas Ornaments
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One of my favorite parts of the holidays are the low-hanging balls—around a Christmas tree, of course! But now you can elevate your ornament game with the hottest collectibles on the market from December Diamonds. This gay-owned Christmas retailer is renown for their sexy ornaments featuring sculpted men as mermen, fairies, lumberjacks, and more. Check out their “Poke the Bear” collection to bring some Christmas cheer to the bear/bear-lover in your life.
$37 on decemberdiamondsonline.com.
Tantus Vibrating Cockring
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This year, everyone’s buzzing about the toys from Tantus, but the ones making the biggest buzz are the vibrating cock rings. They’re battery-powered, made with ultra-premium silicone, and come in two color options. These 2 inch cock rings will help you go a long way, no matter how many inches you’re sporting.
$29 on tantusinc.com.
Porn Star Prayer Candles
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It’s time to get on your knees and pray for these gods to fill you with their light. ️These prayer candles featuring porn actors Colby Melvin, DeAngelo Jackson, and Matthew Camp are the perfect way to light up your home for the holidays. I know we all wouldn’t mind seeing some hot wax dripping all over these men. Can I get an AMEN?
$22 on peachykings.com.
Say Gay Knee Socks
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After Florida introduced the Don’t Say Gay Bill, we all wanted to give them a firm kick in the ass. Make sure you look your best when kicking down bigotry with these Say Gay athletic knee socks. They’re equally sporty and chic, and they’re designed to provide comfort through any activity or outfit. Wear them with pride, and let everyone know that we’re here, we’re queer, and we will be gay!
$14 on cultureedit.com.
Lexol Leather Conditioner
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As the saying goes, “if you can’t dom your friends, who can you dom?” Whether you’re a dominant sir or a submissive sub, show some love to those in your community with the Lexol Leather Conditioner. This two-part set is designed to restore, preserve, and protect all leather attire, harnesses, and accessories. Make sure your leathermen are looking their best any time of the year.
$10 on the-leather-man-inc.shoplightspeed.com.
LOQI X Tom of Finland Tote Bag
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Tote bags are timeless accessories in the queer community, but that doesn’t mean their designs are (I’m talking to you, New Yorker tote bag). Strut the streets with a bag you’ll want to use again and again with the Tom of Finland tote by LOQI. This designer bag company mixes art with functionality, and they’ve taken it to new heights with this tote featuring the classic “Use a Rubber” Tom of Finland print.
$31 on loqi.eu.
Total Slut Coffee Mug
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You are what you drink, and in this case we’re a piping hot cup of total slut! If you are too, you can’t miss this charming coffee mug from our friends at Peachy Kings. It comes in a '70s-inspired design that will help you embrace your true colors.
$18 on peachykings.com.
Silver Wave Headband by Austin James Smith
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We queers love a good bandana moment, but if you’re not looking to indulge in the hanky code, you may want to upgrade your accessory game. NYC designer Austin James Smith is here to help with a line of cloth accessories inspired by his fierce PHASE 6: LOST Collection. Our favorite piece is the Silver Wave headband—perfect whether you’re breaking a sweat at the gym or on the dance floor of your favorite club.
$40 on austinjamessmith.com.
Tom of Finland Electric Lighter
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Picture this: it’s 3:30 AM outside your favorite club, and you pop outside for a smoke. You’re about to head home, when the hottest stud walks up to you and asks for a light. You whip out the Tom of Finland electric lighter, and you know from the look on his face that you’ve sealed the deal. Now, the power to make this a reality is at your fingertips with this sleek, rechargeable lighter featuring LED Tom of Finland artwork. From the bar patios to the post-sex smoke session, light up the night with this sexy lighter.
$30 on cultureedit.com.
Andrew Christian Pride Sailor Hat
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Ahoy, matey! Set sail for some sexy fun with the Andrew Christian Pride Sailor hat. Whether you’re enjoying the ocean air in Fire Island or docking your dinghy in the bedroom, this accessory shows everyone you’re ready to be their first mate. And with an affordable price tag, your whole crew can cast their anchors in style. ⚓
$10 on andrewchristian.com.
LGBTQ+ Pride Enamel Pins
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Whether you’re rolling with your gaggle of gays, tribe of theys, or league of lesbians, everyone should live bold and be proud to be in the LGBTQ+ community. Make sure your friends have the accessories to match with these enamel pins from design company The Found. They have dozens of products ranging from keychains to greeting cards that celebrate pop culture and queerness, but we can’t get enough of the LGBTQ+ pins. With these, your whole crew can express themselves and live in full color.
$11.50 on thefound.com.
Tom of Finland Air Fresheners
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What’s the only thing better than that new car smell? The smell of a man, of course! Now you can have the best of both worlds with these lush air fresheners from Tom of Finland. With available scents in Leather, Bourbon, and Meadow, these fresheners will take you on a wilder ride than your last poppers binge. Go ahead, take a whiff.
$8 on cultureedit.com.
Hoffman Nipple Clamps with Chain
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We all love a little nipple play, but sometimes fingers and tongue just don’t do the trick. Take your partner to the edge with the Hoffman Nipple Clamps from The Leather Man NYC. The clamps sport ribbed teeth and adjustable screws, so you can have a grip as tight as you can take it. And with the metal chain link, these clamps come as wired as your nipples.
$22 on the-leather-man-inc.shoplightspeed.com.
Fetish ID Tags
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If you’re someone who wears their heart on their sleeve, now you can wear it around your neck too. The FETISH ID tag collection features metal enamel ID tags with 26 different embellishment options. Whether you’re a “Diva” or a “Master,” whether you love to “69” or are hungry for some “Beef,” there’s options for everyone in this chic collection.
$9.50 on cultureedit.com.
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