Where Are They Now: Caesar Talks Favorite Scenes and Co-Stars, Overcoming Addiction, & Leaving Porn for Personal Training

December 1, 2022
NSFW.ARMY

Pretty much every gay man has that fantasy about that big, tough college jock with the dirty blonde hair, the extra buff bod, and a kind of "whatever dude" attitude.

In the early 2000s, nobody embodied that better than Caesar.

This Marine Corps vet just had that look that made us think, "I would so love to just watch this guy play football or wrestle and then go home and fuck him!" Don't you just love that feeling?

Caesar was a pretty big presence during this decade, but apparently never really enjoyed his time. After overcoming a drug habit, he chose to hang up his gloves and now lives a happy "normal" life as a personal trainer and dad, and he's happier than ever.

He shared an update with Cybersocket

Could you tell us about your journey to entering the industry?

That was such a long time ago. In 1998, I was stripping/dancing around the country and was booked at a club in Lake Station, IN so I could meet Chi Chi.

We hit it off and ended up in Chicago partying with Erin Hamilton. I was hooked by the ”scene.” It wasn’t long after that I was flown to California to begin my time in porn.

What was it like being a straight man working in the industry?

I wouldn’t know, I’ve been bisexual my entire life. This has never been a secret.

No truly straight man is doing gay porn. That’s my opinion on the subject.

Do you have some favorite scene(s) or scene partners?

Making porn was nerve-racking to me. It got easier but it always caused me great anxiety. That being said, I really enjoyed making, Cowboy for Blue Blake’s company.

I was most comfortable in my last film, Playing with Fire 3. I was at my largest physical size of any film and it was the most money I’d received for a film. It was a fun shoot!

I did enjoy my time with the play, Making Porn.

You were tight with Tom Katt who completely turned away from the industry. Could you touch on that relationship?

I met Tom Katt through David Forest. I was living in WeHo then.

I was addicted to meth, trying to beat it when Tom was introduced. He had his own demons with cocaine and he was into bodybuilding. We hit it off right away.

We were really good friends and nothing more.

He moved away and got married. We stayed in touch for several years and then we just lost touch. I haven’t spoken with him since 2012-ish. I wish him the best.

What is your life like today? Who are you now? Did your time in the business affect who you are now?

My life is awesome. I’m free of my “demons”, running my training/coaching business, engaged to an amazing human, raising 2 doxies that are “our children” and I have a great relationship with my son who’s about to turn 29 in February. I’m blessed and grateful to be alive and turn 50 in a month on Dec 27!

The porn industry definitely affected who I am. It was very difficult to be taken seriously as a professional afterwards. It took a lot of hard work and education to break free from the box people tried to put me in. Which made me a better coach in my opinion.

How do you look back on your time in the industry?

I honestly don’t think about it much these days. I was young, wild ,and a bit crazy in those days. I was addicted to sex & drugs and it was spinning my life out of control. I’m amazed I lived through the madness.

I remember staying awake for half a month back in December 2001. Crazy!

That life is so far from where I’m at now. No regrets really. I had fun until I didn’t!

Are you still in contact with some of your performers from the business?

I still talk to Chi Chi and see her when she’s in town. She’s met my son and my fiancée. She's been to my home.

I chat with people from that time in my life and have no issues with anyone.

Do you follow the industry at all?

Not really. I may watch porn here and there but I couldn’t tell you who’s who these days.

Would you ever consider a comeback?

No. I had my 15 minutes. I’m happy doing what I do now.