Adult performer and personal trailer Jack Andy dives into sex and relationships from a unique perspective in his new Cybersocket column 'Killing Construct'.
FUCK NSFW
You remember all those sexual harassment videos? The corny, cheesy, badly-acted bullshit that was shoved down our throats literally every time we got a job. What a shitty, outdated, irritating take on sex—clearly by people who weren’t having any. I’m so sick of NSFW period. I’m beside myself as a sexual human being, especially coming from an industry that produces the sexy bodies and is constantly fetishized for doing so.
Sex for gain is a crime yes; non-consensual sex is a crime, it's rape, hello; but sex in the workplace? I think not.
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— DaddyJackAndy (@DaddyJackAndy) August 3, 2022
Personal trainers, especially gay ones, get probably about 75% of their clients from dating apps alone, and almost all of the conversations around them circulate with a sexual undertone. Not just because they want to look like me but they also want to fuck me. There was a point in time where I did have a private gym during the height of the pandemic, and there was a point in time where I did fuck the client. Hell, that's how I met my ex. He wanted to work out in a jockstrap and his ass was phenomenal. It always started with me spotting him inappropriately, then getting him real sweaty and carrying a tiny bottle of lube in my pocket.
Don’t get me wrong I don’t want to open my Zoom meeting and watch Sophie getting spit roasted while crunching the numbers of the fourth quarter everyday, that's what breaks would be for, but we have to point out that the offense of sex has been overstated. Sexual harassment is offensive, sex is not.
Ya wanna know why people don’t wanna go to work? Cuz the guarantee of not getting laid is fucking exhausting. Consensual sex between two individuals should always be a welcome option under certain conditions: one, anyone who witnesses it has to want to see it (business orgies baby!); two, do it on your break; three, keep emotions out of the workplace; and four, don’t use it for employment gain.
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Let’s dig further into the topic and discuss sex work. Literally the oldest business out there is the business of sex for money. As someone who’s been there and done that, I love the quote from SATC, “Sex is power, and money is power, so money in exchange for sex is simply an exchange of power.” If it’s a consensual act, where's the crime?
The issue, I think, people have with it honestly is rooted in insecurity, religious beliefs, and jealousy. Anyone who has a harsh opinion of sex or public sex, even sex with more than one person, always has the idea that their partner “belongs” to them. If you want something I think should stay out of the workplace, it should be religious beliefs and the idea that moral standards are the same across the board and apply to everyone. I find it offensive that I can’t act on my sexual nature whenever I want, even if the other party has expressed interest. Where’s my parade? It's non existent because it has become so culturally normal to pick on people who have interesting sex lives or are sex workers and call them dirty because a larger group of people believe in the construct of morality created by a much older and outdated religious society. Quite frankly, I think it's time we started to stand up for our rights to fuck whenever we want, wherever we want as long as its consensual and it's in a space where it is advertised as allowed, there is a designated area for it, and all parties involved are on board either as a witness or participant.
I think it’s its time for the workplace to catch up to the fact that the workplace deserves a better standard for a broader spectrum of moral standards based on the fact that some people would agree with me that sex being NSFW sucks.
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