Ryan Carter here and I’m a working adult performer (aka, a "porn star") and, not to shock you, but also a licensed mental health professional. This unique combination of professions gives me a lot of insight about what shameless sexually adventurous men do and why. And I'm here in this column sharing it all with you. Everything I write about in this column is true and actually happened.
Have you ever fantasized about being fucked by a steady line of men? Or being the center of attention in a gang fuck scene? Or just fantasized about taking multiple loads from several different men in a row or maybe spread out over an afternoon? These are all really common fantasies, and some of us have actuality done it. It can be scintillating, exciting, validating, and even a little bit scary. And if you're ever going to do it, like I have, it would be a good idea to also consider your health. And many guys have asked me about this aspect of living out this super slutty fantasy. So, for me, the answer to the common question I get about my health is this: I have a good relationship with my GP doctor and can get tested with relative ease. I have also been HIV+/undetectable for more than 10 years and remain committed to treatment and staying undetectable. Undetectable status means the amount of virus in my system is so low, that it cannot be detected—which basically means it cannot be passed along to any sexual partners. You can read about it here at Aidsmap.com if you would like to know more about HIV.
Back to the sex. I did my first whore out about 8 years ago. A friend here in LA asked me if I wanted to do it if he set it up. I agreed and, as it turns out, I just loved it and never looked back (over my shoulder). Since then, I have been whored out many times.
I have been gang fucked, as well as taken multiple loads from different guys throughout the day. Getting my hole flooded with cum is an incredible sensation—and getting whored out is even more fun! But in order for me to want to do it, I have to be that headspace of "I am here to take dick and be of service (literally)" and not to be all judgy about who shows up. If the guy is anonymous and if I'm blindfolded, what the fuck difference dose his physical appearance make?! Being blindfolded helps alleviate me from judgment and pushes me to surrender to the experience and just let it happen. It also brightens my other senses. This makes me hyper-focussed so that what I hear and what I feel gets really intense.
Being whored out isn't for everyone.
Buuuuut, if you're going to do it, I highly recommend you have a guy you trust act as a room monitor. This person will have your back both figuratively and literally. So choose well. Ideally, this would be a person who is likely a voyeur as well and gets off on pimping guys out for loads. So he gets off on the whore outs, too, but from a different role. You're going to get bred anonymously and this monitor will be charged to act in your best interest, like if someone gets unruly or shows up high. I don't use drugs, so taking guys who are tweaked is a big turn off. Plus I don't want a load of cum in my ass that's also got meth in it. So a room monitor is something I like.
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— Aiden Mathis (4 followers) (@HungAladdin) April 16, 2022
I did my most recent filmed whore out this past Friday night, hosted by HungAladddin, at some random Hollywood motel (motels are great for these because of the seedy vibe) for his new series "Whore Him Out," in which he pimps out porn stars to any top that wants to swing by and fuck their favorite performer. It's a great concept and not many people are filming these kinds of scenes much anymore, so I think the series is going to continue to gain popularity.
So, here's what happened...
@HungAladdin, who's fucked me several times both on and off camera, knows I like this sort of thing, reached out to me a few weeks ago and told me he's doing a new series and asked if I wanted to be in the second episode. The fist episode he whored out legendary bottom Devin Franco. He said the event would be hosted in some Hollywood motel and he would arrange all the anon tops and cameraman to film it. I immediately agreed! We set the date and time for the past Friday starting at 6PM. He told me to wear a wide band, white jock strap so we can mark the load count with a sharpie.
I arrived at the motel around 3PM, an hour before HungAladdin got there, so I went on the apps looking for off-camera dick to get my hole pre-loaded for the scene. I found 3 men close by who all quickly came to the room to fuck and breed me. When HungAladdin arrived at 4pm, I bent over the bed to present my used hole to him. His big brown cock flopped out of his shorts and slid into my smooth wet muscle hole. He pumped my ass and finished shooting his load just as the cameraman arrived. My pre-filming tally was now at 4 loads in—the evening was very much off to a good start! Lights were set up and, since Pig Load Lube was a sponsor for the scene, all their lube products and swag were set up on a table and around the room. HungAladdin shot a quick pre-event interview of me. The clock hit 6PM, and sure enough, there was a knock on the door...the first top arrived. I pulled the green bandana blindfold over my eyes and hopped on the bed, landing in the well-established 'cum dump position,' which is on all fours with your ass up facing the door—so there's no mistake your hole is on display and ready for use. I felt the top grab my ass; I think he sniffed my ass, probably smelled the cum already in there and leaking out, and started to lick my hole. His tongue felt great even though his hands were kinda cold. After a few minutes of licking me, he stood up and unzipped his pants. I felt his hard dick land against my crack. RC anon vid He spit on his cock (I think) and pushed into me. As he was pumping my hole, I heard a knock on the door, which meant another top arriving. The guy grunted and I could feel him harden as he shot a warm load of sperm into me. I could feel him mark my jockstrap with the sharpie nearly simultaneously as that second top, who was already hard, get between my legs and slide into me.
This guy's dick felt incredible—I'm pretty sure he was uncut. If you've taken a lot of cock like me then you know what I'm talking about. Uncut dick just feels different than a circumcised one and it's great. So, yes, I love uncut cock. This guy shot into me, as well. When he pulled out, I could feel warm sperm seep out of my hole and into my jock strap. When that second guy left, I jumped up and asked if that cum leaking out was caught on camera...and it WAS! Woohoo!!
This was basically what the next three hours looked and felt like. Top after anonymous top knocked on the door, which triggered me to jump into position and the cameraman started rolling. Each time I got bred, more cum would leak out when the top pulled out. My jockstrap was getting really wet and the room started smelling like sex and cum. It was intoxicating. With each load sprayed into me, my head would spin just a little bit more. I don't use drugs, but I'm well familiar with the swooning effect that cum has when it's pumped into your hole. All bareback bottoms dedicated to taking sperm in their holes know this.
A couple of times during the evening, I got spit roasted. While a top was waiting to use me, he would circle around and put this crotch in my face, which is man-speak for 'suck my dick.' I obeyed the implicit command both times, and both times the tops had fucking incredible dicks, which were big and meaty and filled my mouth perfectly. 15 loads where ejaculated into me over the course of the evening. HungAladdin said a couple guys returned for a second go-around with my white ass. I have no idea who any of the men were and I'll never know, too, because NO ONE had their face on camera. I love that there are guys out there in Los Angeles who have fucked me but I'm clueless as to their identity. Which means I could be out in public and one of these men will spot me, knowing he's used me but I have no idea.
While this was happening, my husband and fellow slut Digger was across town at home and was cruising for hole. One guy confused us and asked him if he did was doing a pump dump tonight. Digger replied, "no." The guy then asked Digger, "did you know your husband is doing this?" As if he was catching me doing something 'wrong.' Digger knew exactly what I was doing and where. He knows everything I do and vice versa. We share all our adventures with each other. This is for two reasons: 1) we're turned on hearing about each other's sexual escapades and 2) we don't want anyone, like his guy on the app, to have any power over us. In our wedding vows, we committed to being the first to hear something about one another, not the second, third or fourth. This is the cornerstone of "managing thirds."
Managing Thirds
Digger and I get asked a lot about how we do our relationship. The answer is actually pretty simple and boils down to one simple idea: early on we agreed to put safety and security ahead of everything else and are completely honest with each other about everything. No secret or lies. Ever. I know, scary right?! It is scary. But the payoff has allowed us to become best friends. There's nothing I don't or won't share with Digger. I've learned that as a mental health professional, one of the most common problems in relationships is feeling like we're competing with some other person, job, or even thing (like money, substances or objects). Those things are all 'thirds.' Hence, how you manage those thirds is critical.
We made this agreement very early in our dating, making it a foundational principle. I hope this doesn't sound preachy, but it's honestly at the core of our success as a couple. Well, that plus we're both unabashedly shameless sex-positive whores, which we both own and honor and this part is important, we try not to shame the other about sex. Digger and I love to share about our sexual escapades with each other. So, being open with my husband about my whorishness is not only critical, it's celebrated. So naturally he knew everything about the "Whore Him Out" video I was doing.
I encourage anyone reading this column to consider how deception and hiding your true self may have impacted your past or current relationship(s); and if you do have trouble being honest, try being just a little bit more honest today and see what happens. And I'm talking about being compassionately honest rather than brutally honest. Not that everything will be fixed, but it's definitely a step in the right direction. Now go be shameless sluts.
Until next time, plug in / get off!
... and enjoy the ride!
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