Rule Number One of Being on Top: Take It Slow

There's nothing worse than getting a top in bed and he just hammers his dick in and starts drilling away. If you want to do it right, you have to ease into it. Let's have a demonstration.

This bottom starts by stretching himself out a bit with a finger, but it's really the top who does the rest. He shows some nice restraint by sliding it in nice and slow and pausing. Then he takes some nice, short, easy strokes getting his bottom primed for a downright plowing. And that's what he works himself into. Once everyone is comfortable, he fucks nice and hard like a good top should. Bottoms are like floors, lay them right for the first 30 seconds and you can fuck them hard for the next hour—or something like that.

·Chavo En El DF (gaytube.com)