We should have expected that when it came to the oftimes perplexing issue of straight men who have sex with men, the always insightful Tristan Taormino would have something worth reading on the subject—even if one of her sources lists pretty much every reason why (he thinks) they do except for the most obvious one. (That would be "Because they want to", even if it looks like they're not having a good time. We know plenty about this stuff too.) (villagevoice.com + straightguise.com + seancody.com)