Jesse Santana Would Like You To Know …

2008_01_11_jesses.jpgFirst of all, let us just say that we think porn studlet Jesse Santana is absolutely adorable (even if he really should step away from the tanning bed for a while). And we know it must be annoying for such an irresistably nubile young buck to get hassled by people who think he’s selling more than just his onscreen porn star persona.

That said, we don’t think Jesse did any service towards his fellow performers who have decided to escort in this open letter that his agent sent around today, in which Jesse uses a bunch of adjectives — like “depressing, infuriating, heartbreaking (and) nauseating” — to describe the way he feels about other kinds of sex work. Instead of a long-winded disparagement of prostitution, maybe a simple statement that he doesn’t choose to escort himself would have been a more graceful way of handling the situation? Ah, youth. So tempestuous!

From: FabScout
Date: February 21, 2008
Subject: Article by Jesse Santana … for Publication

Pornstar / Escort
Where to Draw the Line

Escort, model, pornstar…these are simply job titles, all of which should be respected in their own right, but not to be confused.  Individual pornstars may also have separate job titles.  Some are doctors, some are teachers, some are bartenders, waiters, dancers, professional ice skaters, Olympic swimmers, and some…are escorts.  But more often than not, most pornstars have to struggle under the consistent assumption that all porn models are prostitutes as well.   Why should one title create another?  It’s honestly a shame that a porn model can’t be proud of his or her job, without it also being assumed that sex and/or services are up for sale.  And why is it that a large percentage of models are told, at one point or another, that in order to be a ‘bigger star’ they need to keep some would-be clients happy?  It’s the sad truth, but it’s wrong.  Pornstars should be liked for their performances on-screen, not off-screen.
           
First, let me simply say that my standpoint is not at all against escorting or escorts, but against the misled presumption that simply being a pornstar in today’s society automatically links you to being an escort as well.  Whereas, most of us pornstars would rather be associated with what we truly do as a profession.  In saying that, I only mean to offend the certain individuals who think that a room full of pornstars is the equivalent of a buffet with a complete carry-out/to-go menu.
           
Some may argue that both parties are paid for sex, but consider this…pornstars choose how to express themselves, whereas escorts are at the mercy of their clients desires.  Pornstars are selling a finished product, a scene or a DVD.  An escort’s product is his/her own body or time.  Adult film is completely legal and an honest form of acting, or entertainment rather.  The hard truth is that the core of most every escort’s business is prostitution, which is illegal in all but two states in the United States.  Porn models are paid by check by legitimate companies, whereas escorts are usually paid in cold hard cash by free-standing individuals.  It’s a free country, do what you choose…but many pornstars would rather not be directly categorized with illegal jobs and situations, such as prostitution.

Lately, I’ve been setting the gay porn world On Fire.  I have a strong relationship with a wonderful Guy and this topic means a lot to us, and certainly heavy on the minds of any other non-escorting pornstar.  We’re regular guys who enjoy our career as gay adult entertainers, but that where the line stops.  It’s depressing, infuriating, heartbreaking, nauseating, and most of all, sadly discouraging, that the general public and the porn industry itself, can’t realize that not all of us sell ourselves in such a way.  This specific, misconstrued perception of porn models is an extremely unsettling and disrespecting misconception that needs to be put to light and set straight, for the sake of every self-respecting pornstar’s morals and integrity.

Being asked to sell ourselves is not a compliment or flattering to us in any way.  Even if a certain pornstar were to escort as well, they probably don’t want to be approached for an escorting job while they’re representing themselves as a pornstar…I mean, a doctor doesn’t want to go to a party and be asked to give a woman a breast exam.  We’re not just a bunch of pretty faces, bubble butts, and big dicks…we pornstars have our own ideas, views, and voices…all of which need to be heard!  If you’re a pornstar who escorts, be proud of it.  But if you’re really looking for a good hott escort, please try rentboy.com
- Jesse Santana

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Previously: Jesse Santana Just Wants To Have Fun, Dean Phoenix And Jesse Santana Are “On Fire”, Jesse Santana Helps You “Just Add Water”, Meet Jesse Santana

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  • plushieschwartz

    I wouldn’t pay to fuck her anyway :)

  • Anonymous

    Bleh, too long, whatever dude, sex work is sex work. Not that I am criticizing either, but…pot and kettle, methinks the twain indeed share some traits in common.

  • Anonymous

    If he weren’t having sex for money I think I might look at it differently…problem is…he’s having sex for money.

    From Wikipedia:

    “Socialite: Mr. Churchill, what kind of woman do you think I am?!
    Churchill: Madam, we’ve already established that. Now we are haggling about the price.”

    Sounds strangely appropriate.

  • GayhawkAZ

    Methinks you’re in the minority, plushie ;)

  • shamama

    Agree or disagree with his politics, one simply can’t deny that he’s been setting the gay porn world On Fire!

  • Jonnobot

    @ willgold22: One wonders if he would have used those same adjectives if people were assuming he was, say, a waiter. So it’s pretty obvious they express his attitude toward escorting in general, especially in the context of everything else he has to say.

  • Anonymous

    Good god – just say I don’t escort and let go with all the BS – too much justification. Do we think that he’s smarter now that he’s written a letter with paragraph divisions. Ugh.

  • Arch Noble

    @dennis0805: But “pornstars have [their] own ideas, views, and voices…all of which need to be heard!”

    Also: “Pornstars should be liked for their performances on-screen, not off-screen.” Do breathless letters on the computer count as on-screen? If so, this performance didn’t make me like him any better.

  • will

    “Depressing, infuriating, heartbreaking, nauseating” is how he describes the ASSUMPTION that he’s a wh – I mean escort, NOT the noble profession itself as you oh so cavalierly misquoted him. BAD Fleshbot.

  • Charles_Barrett – Now with Variable-Valve Timing

    One hardly expects a worker in one aspect of the sex industry to disrespect other aspects of the sex industry. Receiving money to have sex with a stranger applies to porn as well as escorting/prostitution. I think legalization is a good idea, but at present only the porno part is legal (at least in several states, anyway).

  • BenjaminNicholas

    Jesse is simply another ‘flavor of the moment’ porn star who’s over-inflated ego can’t see that doing porn isn’t a way out, but just a way sideways. Cookie for him for completing full sentences and proving that his baked-on tan is as fake as his rousing intellect.

    Whether you’re an escort, pornstar or both, you’re still selling yourself in a sexual situation. As an escort, you’re at the will of the client. When you’re fucking on cam, it’s a legal bound contract. Santana’s logic is flawed and seems more like a way for him to justify (to himself) his own personal issues within the industry.

    I won’t be shocked when he’s placing his first ad on Craigslist or shows up on DaddysReviews: The next best thing in porn is always around the corner. It’s only a matter of time before he goes the way of Matt Rush, also more commonly known as the ‘I-wouldn’t-ever-escort, but-might-if-the-Falcon-gig-dries-up’ mentality.

    BN

  • Anonymous

    @WillGold22 – YOu’re splitting hairs. I would have given him the benefit of the doubt if he said it was merely “annoying” or even “infuriating” to be mistaken as an escort all the time, but the “depressing, infuriating, heartbreaking, nauseating” overload makes it pretty clear how he feels about escorting in general and not just the assumption that he is one.

    Then again …. he is young and cute so I’m inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt anyway.

  • will

    @Fleshbot: Thanks for the response, but doesn’t wash a) because it’s not what he SAYS, no matter how much you may disbelieve him, and b) I do think it might be infuriating, etc. if EVERYONE assumes you are something you are not, yes maybe even a waiter. I just think you have to take someone at their word when you quote from them.

  • shamama

    @BenjaminNicholas: I’m not sure I’m really following you, Ben.

    As far as I know, Matt Rush has never escorted. But you’re saying he *might* one day, so therefore it’s only a “matter of time” before Jesse Santana also *Might* also one day escort?

  • BenjaminNicholas

    @shamama: RE: The Matt Rush issue…

    Rush toyed with escorting, dipping his toe into the water on the Muscle-Service MC a few months ago and posting up some ads here and there. His boyfriend at the time didn’t know he was contemplating it and it caused all sorts of craptastic problems. Rush took down the ads, but it went against his grain of ‘never wanting to escort’ as it demeaned his status in the porn industry.

    Eventually, they all start to sell it. There’s always someone younger, better-looking and willing to work for less money. Santana, as stated before, is simply another flavor of the moment (and, by the sounds of it, severely lacking in the ways of the world)

    BN

  • Jonnobot

    @shamama, BenjaminNicholas:
    See our posts here and here, and an ATKOL Forum thread from last summer here.

  • shamama

    @BenjaminNicholas: I know Matthew and I’m by no means his apologist nor could I care less if he *was* an escort but I was never convinced that the Rentboy ad was ever actually posted by him. He attracts a lot of kooky stalker types who thrive on stuff like that.

    Ben, no offense, but as someone who almost got caught up in a near-national scandal based on a few emails you wrote about *not* having sex with a certain person in exchange for cash, I think you’d be more sensitive to jumping to conclusions about people based on speculation, rumor and semi-truths, you know?

  • shamama

    @Fleshbot: AND AS FOR FLESHBOT! WELL!!!!

    No offense, but that atkol post was in very bad taste — you shouldn’t have linked to it!!

  • shamama

    That guys never was his agent, he was merely booking his live shows for a bit. I don’t want to take this threat even more off point, but he’s not the most trustworthy source — I mean, in that same post he wrote out what all his clients (and some who are not his clients) make.

  • will

    @shamama: I don’t get your last point to BN. Does not his agent say in the linked forum that he spoke with Rush and he confirmed it was indeed he who placed the ad? Or is that what you consider to be in poor taste???

  • will

    @shamama: Agent or no agent, the Atkol thread later shows Rush himself posting that he indeed placed the ad, so now our little controversy is over.

  • shamama

    Chomg I stand corrected! LOLZ!

  • Anonymous

    Everyone should read this interview by porn confidential on the Jesse Santana article issue.
    [pornconfidential.com]

  • BenjaminNicholas

    @shamama: Let’s face it, the ‘emails’ that were supposedly sent to BigHeadDC were total bullshit and they couldn’t ever produce screenshots proving their allegations. Just another blog looking to boost their web-traffic by passing off lies as the honest truth. Notice how quickly it died after the Huffington Post used some common sense?

    As for Santana, he seemed to make a little more sense in this latest interview, but god help him for not having to good grace to think before he speaks. He’s acting like the world really cares what adult-industry performers have to say, when the reality of it is we simply do our job, hopefully enjoy life and repeat.

    This whole thing is akin to having a celebrity endorse a political candidate: Does anyone even care what Susan Sarandon thinks anymore? *grin*

    BN

  • will

    @BN: Hey,lay off Susan!